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Its only by a couple of pounds, BUT its been many years since I can say this!!! I'm so excited! I'm down 30 lbs now!:P

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Since I have been with my husband I weighed more than himI went under him but then looked extremely unhealthy. I got to 136 and he is only 143 lbs. I joined the gym and gained muscle and now I weigh the same as him but he has a big belly. How strange.................

Josephine

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I have never weighed less than my husband, always more. At this point in time I need to lose 12 pounds to be a pound less than him. I can't wait til that day!

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Beware: rant ahead--

OK, so I tell DH I've lost 30 lbs, and he says "Great! I've lost such-n-such pounds from working outside...blah blah blah...!" So now, we're the same. But wtf?? Get off my cloud! I tell him its easy for him to lose weight, and he's never had a problem with it anyway. Its a struggle for me, and this is supposed to be MY excitement, not his! He isn't un-supportive, but still doesn't totally get it. When my father-in-law found out how much I lost, he calmly said "Thats substantial." Substantial???!!! Is it just me? Or am I on some other planet???!!! All you guys here are my main support, as you can see, and I thank you!

-"Substantial" Barb

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My DH started dieting when I started the pre-op. Fast forward to today.....he has lost 31 pounds and I have only lost 16, and I am banded!!! Talk about frustrating.

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Beware: rant ahead--

OK, so I tell DH I've lost 30 lbs, and he says "Great! I've lost such-n-such pounds from working outside...blah blah blah...!" So now, we're the same. But wtf?? Get off my cloud! I tell him its easy for him to lose weight, and he's never had a problem with it anyway. Its a struggle for me, and this is supposed to be MY excitement, not his! He isn't un-supportive, but still doesn't totally get it. When my father-in-law found out how much I lost, he calmly said "Thats substantial." Substantial???!!! Is it just me? Or am I on some other planet???!!! All you guys here are my main support, as you can see, and I thank you!

-"Substantial" Barb

You'll find that most men just don't get it.... at all.

You, like me have agonixed over your weight your whole life.. getting BELOW your hubbys weight is HUGE...

WAY TO GO~~~~:biggrin:

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It sure does feel great to weigh less than your hubby! I now weigh 5 pounds less than mine.

This morning I tried on a new pair of pants that I bought and I'm now down another pant size!! I was wearing a size 26/28 and now am down to a size 18. Happy New Year to me!!! Seriously, I praise the Lord for my success!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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