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Hey all,

I am 3 1/2 wks post op. I feel like I didn't even have surgey, accept I know that I did because of the scars!! I can eat everything and although I am not eating all day when I eat my meals I feel like I can eat more than I should. I can't wait for my first fill. Can anyone tell me that after my fill things will be easier and get better and I should start losing weight??? :rolleyes:

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Well, I feel the same way that you do... I called my doctors office last week and told them that I am hungry. I have my first follow up appt this week and I was told that if the swelling has gone down around my port, that I could get a fill. I hope so, because I told my sister that I think my band has disappeared. How strange.....I am ready to feel like I did the first week.. I understand so much more now!!!!!!!

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I drove my Dr. crazy saying I can eat anything even after 3 fills.... Then at my 4th fill she listened to me and said OK I will give you a bigger fill but you must drink 2 cups of Water b-4 you leave the office. By the time I got to the waiting room to drink the water I was choking on my own saliva and in terrible pain. The nurse brought me back in to the Dr and she said - So do you believe you have a band now? She quickly unfilled me a bit and said she did not close out the computer after I walked out b-cause she knoew I would be right back!!!! Anyway, I still had one more fill after that and now I am a great restriction and losing weight.

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It's quite normal to be hungry for the first few months after surgery. The band is there but hasn't been "activated", that's how I always tried to explain it. Try not to totally destroy any weight lost so far and just know that as soon as you start getting fills it will get better. My doctor told me at the beginning that it's quite normal for the first few months to gain a little weight. Drink lots of Water and eat low calorie foods when the hunger gets bad. Good luck!

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I wish I could tell you the first fill will be the magic one, but that doesn't always happen. A first fill under floroscope will generally get you closer to good restriction than fills without, but with floro doesn't guarantee it either.

Just try to hang in there until it comes along. It's a process and I think you can actually learn a lot about eating and signals your body sends you about being satisfied that will help you long term.

Most of us have been through this and get through it and you will, too!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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