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What do you mean by a slight rest? They have taken my fill all the way out due to an esophigal dilation. Am supposed to wait 6 weeks and go back in on July 6 to start with fills again. Guess I'm questioning now what it is I'm supposed to be eating in the mean time?!?!? When I called the surgeons office, they said that anything I ate could go right through so it didn't matter. Guess I'm second guessing that advice and was trying to get input from some of the other bandsters! Thanks for any help you can offer.

Wish I could help....came on here with a dilated esophogus myself and wanted answers! You have me kind of scared now with other things that could go wrong. I'm trying to figure out what kind of food and how much I'm supposed to be eating for the 6 weeks while there is no fill and until they start refilling. Good luck, hope all goes well.

I think we would all do it again in a second. Even though it hasn't been as easy as we were hoping, it's still been easier than doing it by myself! Has anyone figured out why they overeat? If you have could you let me in on how you figured it out!?!?!? Now that I don't have any fill (they start putting it back on on July 6), it's hard to stay focused on eating bandster style. Beleive it or not, my stomach is growling all the time. Makes me think that I don't remember my stomach growling very often when there was a fill. So if it wasn't growling, why was I eating? My Dad says it's just a habit and my mind is telling my stomach it's hungry.......wish my mind would shut up! Juno, How did the visit with the trainer go? Did it end up getting you motivated?? If so then I need to borrow him for a few weeks!

Promised myself I'd check in more often and just haven't had the time! We're farmers and getting crops in has been a 15-16 hours a day thing for about 10 days now. Then in the middle of it there was a death in the family.....with everything that's been going on, not having any fill, the death, crops and ball games for my 3 boys I haven't exactly been watching anything I've eaten at all. Then, when I got home from the funeral today the surgeon had called to inform me that my insurance no longer covers bariatric anything! This is the same insurance that actually paid for the surgery to begin with!! Guess my husbands policy changed and we didn't think to check on it the bariatric part of it. So I'm guessing that the upper GI that they did to determine the esophagus was dilated wasn't covered. Oh, well, on the brighter side of things, they did cover the surgery so I shouldn't be complaining! Have any of you figured out yet why you over ate to begin with. I'm trying to figure out how to make the most out of my band when they start putting the fills back in . I don't want to screw this up again! Are there any books you've found that relate just to lap-band surgeries that you would recommend? I found the one about Weight Loss Surgery for Dummies but it was about gastric bypass too and not sure if the two food plans are the same. Starting tomorrow I'm going to start exercising again.....maybe that will get my head in the right direction. Juno.....enjoy your baby and all the extra exercise you'll get chasing her (I think I read it was a girl?!?) We were looking back at videos of our boys the other day. The oldest one was almost 5 when the twins started walking.....the house was actually cleaner when they were that age! Seems like the older they get the more messes they make. But still wouldn't trade my 9 year old twins and my 13 (will be 14 years old in a couple of weeks) for nothing in the world!!!

Good for you for sticking to something!! I admire you for getting back into the swing of things and not letting it get you down. I have been gaining weight slowly and at about 15 pounds of a gain I made the appt. at the surgeons and found out that I've got a dilated esophagus. They took my fill out and will start the process over again a couple of months. That's why I'm back on here......always seemed to do better when I could research on LBT with what real people are going through. Hoping I can get my head back into this and figure out why I'm not able to quit snacking?!?!? The band helps us lose weight but in the end it's still up to us. Congrats to you for finding a way to lose weight.....no matter what the way is ! !

So what kind of foods and how much do you eat while the fill is no longer there and you're resting your esophagus? I just found out that I have dilated it and my pouch.....they took my fill out and am to go back in 2 months to start all over. Not sure exactly what I'm supposed to be eating! I never had reflux or problems eating. Guessing I was just too full (4.75 cc in a 4 cc band) and know that I snack too much!! Any help from someone who's been there would be appreciated. Thanks!

They really don't know what causes it. For each person it could be different. It sounded like in my case, the band was tight enough to make me stop eating at about a cup of food but then I would snack an hour or so later out of habit. The food couldn't get through from my meal so then I packed more food on top of it from snacking and stretched everything out. One of the other things she said was that overeating causes it.....I really don't feel like I overeat.....just had started snacking on a way too regular basis! I didn't think there was a problem because I hardly ever got hungry, had restriction on a regular basis and could feel it make the little bubble burp thing it does when you eat something and can feel it go down. I'm going to try and keep coming on here....this is the first time I've been able to get on two nights in a row for a really long time. I didn't even have to put my password in 20 times like I used to!! Hope to get caught up on how everyone is doing and maybe make me more aware of what I'm doing for the next couple of months. I really don't want to gain the weight back that I've already lost. Talk to you tomorrow!

Oh My Gosh!!!! It worked! Okay, so it's been since last November since I checked in. Have been getting hungry more often and noticed that I could eat more (not a lot) but most times more than in the beginning. I had lost 103 pounds but have since gained about 15 pounds of it back. So I went to my surgeons last Thursday and I've dilated my esophogus (sp!). They took the entire fill out for 2 months and then are going to do another upper GI and see if all is well and then start over with fills. Guess my question is....Has this happened to any of you? How did you handle it and do you have any suggestions? I have the 4cc band and there was something like 4.8 cc in it! Going to sign off now, hope I can get back into this tomorrow. Even if I don't I can still read posts.....just can't always comment. It's been great seeing your posts and hopefully tomorrow I can get caught up on what you guys are doing!

I sure hope this works.....it's been waaaaaay too long since I've been on here! Every time I try it says I'm an invalid user and can't post. Won't make this too long so we can see if it works!

I can relate to the new appliance stories.....a couple years ago I wanted a new refrigerator (it was $900!!). Mine hadn't quit but shelves were broke and the seal wasn't good, and I swear it came over on the Mayflower! So of course thats "money we don't HAVE to spend" and I never got it. Father in law was getting ready to hire a man to mow, rake and bale a hay field for him.....I jumped in, mowed and raked it then paid my husband to bale it and sold my share of the hay for a little over $1,000!!!! Now I wish another opportunity would come up because I've got a stove that was a passenger on the same boat......

Tonya, I forgot about crossing your legs....it's still not a pretty thing on me since most of my weight is in my leg/thigh/hip area but it can still be done none the less!! It being slow on here is another reason I don't try to get on any more. Guess that could mean it's a good thing....everyone's too busy with living life to set at a computer!! What has got me interested in trying to work on it a little more is a school teacher that I used to have called me up the other day and asked about the band. She had her surgery today and has been soooooo excited to get started on this journey. Guess a little bit of her enthusiasm rubbed off! Remember when we first started and this was all new and a learning experience each day? We were all trying so hard and didn't want to do anything to "ruin" the band!! It felt good to have a little bit of the excitement back again. Makes a person step back a bit and re-group....also makes me want to finish what I started to show her it can be done! Oh well, guess I'm tired because I keep rambling. Hope others start to join in again, I'll try to check at least once a day. Take care and talk to you guys soon!

I've missed reading all your posts more than I knew!! It takes so long for my dial-up to "get up" that I usually don't even bother. Glad to hear that all the tests came back with benign results!! That's always a good feeling!!! I read a few of that last pages to get caught up a little and seem to be about where everyone else is right now. Was banded Jan. 18,2007 and have lost 102 pounds....still have between 30-40 pounds to lose. Am disapointed that I can't seem to lose that last bit but after this last weekend will keep reminding myself how far I've come. Made a list of all the things I've done in the last 18 months that I couldn't have done before the band: 1. Can sit in a chair in any office/store/restaurant I walk into. 2. Can wear my husbands clothes and can buy clothes in every store I walk into now! 3. Rode roller coasters with my kids. 4. Kids love the fact they can get their arms around me with "lots of extra room Mom". 5. Can make it through a very busy day and not be worn out or have ankles swollen. 6. Went to the Garth Brookes concert and was able to sit in the theatre seat (not like when we went to see Larry the Cable Guy and I had to sit in a folding chair in the handicapped section). 7. I actually got up on water ski's a couple weeks ago (used to many years ago and had tried about 3 years ago and didn't have the strength in my arms to haul all myself up!!). 8. I'm 40 years old and have never been on an airplane because had heard it was hard to fit in the seats.....well, my 13 year old son qualified to shoot in the World Archery Shoot in Ellicottville, NY last weekend. We're from Missouri and we flew out to Buffalo and drove to the ski resort where the shoot was. I even rode in the ski lift and wasn't afraid of it breaking. Then was able to walk down the ski slope with ease!! There are many more small accomplishments but these are the BIG ones!! Guess I'm just trying to say that maybe we're looking at this all wrong. Maybe if we make lists of all the things we've achieved and see how far we've come then it will make us try harder to reach the next goals?!?!? I'm going to try and keep getting back on here....I really do miss "talking" to all of you!!

I haven't PB'd once since this new fill! I've also only been hungry (growling loudly sort of hungry!!) a couple of times since then. So guess it worked but I'm still not dropping weight like I wanted to. Lost about 5 pounds and then gained 1 pound of that back. One of the reasons I was trying to hit it hard and try to eat right and eat less was the "sad girls" and the floppy wings. I wear tank tops in the tractor (cause of no a/c) and pray that none of the neighbors stop by. Even my family who are used to the flopping wings can't help but look at them when my arms go out or up. Was wanting to drop this last 30/40 pounds so I can start on the PS's. Then again, the thought of someone cutting up my girls almost makes me sick to my stomach so not sure if I could actually go through with that!! Husband says it's his insurance and he gets to pick the first surgery.....uuuummmm wonder which one he'd choose! By the way, thanks for responding....was thinking that I'd said/done something and was being shunned or something!

Am I going to be the only one on here?!?!?! Still doing quite well with this last fill. Have lost 5 pounds in 6 days....I know a lot of that was fluid so we'll see if it keeps going down on the scale! So far with the exception of one day the calorie count is at or under 1000 each day. It's hard to beleive the amount of snacking that I had started doing without realizing it. Tracking food calories/protein really is something that is important for me. It also helps that the rain has finally let up long enough for us to start planting crops for the season.....spending all day in a tractor makes it a little easier on the snacking! And with the A/C not working in the tractor there is a lot of sweating and water drinking going on too! Would love to have company on here.......

Thanks guys! My fill was Tuesday and I've really tried hard to get back on track with no snacking and eating small bites. So far since Tuesday (and it's Friday morning) I've lost almost 5 pounds! A lot of that was just bad eating on my part and too much snacking but I don't care.....as long as the scales are moving downward I'll take it! I'm only getting in about 600-900 calories....not sure if that will hold up or not but so far I've not been hungry and as long as I'm eating slowly it works. I'm going to try to be a better bandster buddy and get on here daily....just letting this all out really does help! THanks again!