Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Self Pay vs Insurance Timeline/process



Recommended Posts

Hi All,

I have BCBS, but I may end up self-paying (not sure yet) for a bunch of reasons. My question is what is the difference in regards to the process/timeline if you're self-pay vs insurance?

Long story short...i really don't want to wait a long time to get this and today I found out that my company-not insurance-makes the decision to pay or not. I don't want them to know my business...so i may opt to self-pay. Not decided. Would that speed up the process? Do self-payers have to go through the same steps?

Thanks

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

It really depends on the insurance and the surgeon. I have BCBS Federal Employee Program insurance and it only took about a month from my first visit (they sent the claim to the insurance company right after my 1st visit) to surgery day. I was very lucky because some insurance companys require a monitored diet for months.

Have you met with a surgeon yet? If the surgeon doesn't require a bunch of pre-op stuff, you can probably get the surgery pretty quick going self-pay.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was self-pay. My company didn't cover this, so that was my only option--but, like you, i did not want to wait for a 6 month monitored diet period. From the time of my first appt. with Dr. K I had surgery within a month.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I initially started checking into surgery using my insurance. It ended up being an excluded procedure, but the time involved to go that route would have been about 6 weeks. The surgeon who was included in my network required nutritionist visits and a psych eval, and that was where the time came in, actually getting in for those visits and giving the surgeon time to get the reports back. Then of course you had to factor in the time that your insurance company would have in reviewing your case. Although my insurance wouldn't necessarily require the psych and nutritionist visits (long story but I was at first told yes it was covered only to learn later it was excluded), this particular surgeon required them anyway.

After deciding self-pay was my only option, I contacted the surgeon's office I initially wanted to use. From there, it was mainly a few emails with the staff to find out the process and make my appointment. From appointment to surgery date is two weeks. Once I had my financing in place, I had my first appointment two days later. Funnily enough, we actually scheduled my surgery date first and then worked back two weeks for my initial appointment. I went to that appointment and did all the preop stuff at the hospital that same day.

While it has certainly moved quicker being self-pay, I would have waited it out to have insurance cover it. The only thing that might sway me would be that I do get to use the surgeon I want (and he is more experienced) than if I'd had to use my insurance. Since it was excluded, it was a mute point anyway.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I had a difficult time w/BCBSTX for both husband and self - We got annoyed when in month 4 they deviated from the initial requirements (I was never going to be approved: BMI 37, no Comorbids, but DH had a Great Chance: BMI 43 + 3 Comorbidities...he was eventually denied, but we had already gone thru w/the surgery).

The minute I called our surgeons office and said we would be Self Pay, we had a date for surgery 2wks later. My Opinion, the office stepped up Fast & was extremely accomodating in order to get a $30k Check in hand. Love my Dr, but I think they might just speed things up a bit more for Self Pays - again that's my experience only.

Good Luck to Ya~

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

thanks for sharing your experiences. I'll probably end up going the self-pay route. My hubby and I spoke yesterday and he is not in favor of my company knowing my business. Meaning, the company I work for pays the claims, not the insurance provider. This means if I go to the doctor- i pay whatever my share is and the company, not bcbs, pays the rest (this is new as of this year). SO, with this kind of surgery sr. mgmt would most likely be alerted that an employee (no name mentioned) from X department requests X. Then they approve it or not. I'm the only bigger person in my department. This is my understanding of how it works and i don't want people knowing my business.

That being said, i still have to go to my consult on Monday and discuss payment options. They did say they have financing options (or we might go the ccard route and then just pay it off later this year). This, of course, is for the outpatient facility and not hackensack hospital (the hospital is about 30k). :(

I want to make sure that the price the doc gave in the seminar, 15k (with first year of fills) covers everything and there's no hidden fees or whatever.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I would have gladly had it take a little longer and saved my $13k. But my insurance didn't cover it. It took about a month once I started the process until surgery date, but only because the hospital required to be paid 3 weeks prior to the date. So, one I paid, we booked it for 3 weeks from that day.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×