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Hi everyone,:rolleyes:

I'm Jeunesse....dutch and I live in Holland.

I'm 36,married and we have 4 kids.I have asthma,high bloodpressure and a bloodclotting disease called Factor V Leiden.

Till 9 years ago I was never overweight.My weight used to be around 130 pounds(I'm 5ft6).Then I got severe asthma and had to take a lot of steroids and started to gain a lot of weight.And since I gained weight I also started to eat cause I didn't care anymore.I know...pretty stupid but it's the truth.

When I reached the weight of 269 last year I knew I had to do something and started to find information on the lapband.Here in Holland they prefer the lapband over the gastric bypass/duodenal switch and any other WLS.In april I had tests done like lungfunctions,ecg's,bloodwork etc.They wanted me to loose a bit of weight too.I went from 269 to 249 and had my surgery on august 1st about 4 1/2 weeks ago.

I have lost 33 pounds after my surgery.I weigh 216 now and I feel great!!!.Last week I started going to the gym 3 times a week to workout and to boost my energy.I love it!!! The only things I have trouble with are drinking milk and eating white bread and lean meats.

But I tend to eat a lot of fish and veggies now and that goes very well.Still in the mashmode though.

Anyway....that was my introduction...a long one...I know;)

Jeunesse

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hoi jeunesse, hoe gaat het met je??

I lived in holland since i was like 8 and went to school in hilversum till i graduated highschool.

I used to speak and write fluent dutch but it's all blurred away after spending nearly 15 years here is the usa.

Good luck with your weightloss!!

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Hoi Leo,

Het gaat erg goed met mij!!:D

Your Dutch is perfect.....and it's very weird to find someone here who has actually lived in Holland.Hilversum is about an hours drive away from Heemskerk where I live.Heemskerk is next to Beverwijk where the "zwarte markt " is.

Saw your website too and your pics.It really shows that you have lost weight too.Your face is getting thinner:)

I'm so happy with my lapband....the only thing I can't take is a glass of milk.And you know how much milk we tend to drink here.:rolleyes:

Jeunesse

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Jeunesse, Leo

Hello!

I saw you posting on obesityhelp as well. Hoe gaat het met jou?

As I mentioned, I also lived in Holland for 10 years 89-99. My husband is a Nederlander and I lived in Amstelveen and Amsterdam most of the time I was there. I worked in production, television and live shows. Some of the people I worked with are Carlo Stijk, Jacqueline Aaronson, Joop van de Ende, RTL 4, Tros, SOny etc... I really enjoyed my time there. My oldest son was born in the Amstelveense Ziekenhuis. Let s stay in touch. Congratulations on your success with the band!!!

By the way, I have lots of Dutch friend here in TX. We are part of a Dutch club in Dallas and still Celebrate Sinter Klaas here and Zwarte Piet.

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Actually my parents still live in Holland, wow bb you have seen a lot of famous stars in nederland, i think you might have visited hilversum then. Because there are lots of tv studios in hilversum.

Jeunesse, I know what you mean with milk. You know what I miss the most a patatje oorlog and a kroket ( forget the spelling lols)

yummy heheheh...

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Hi Babs and Leo,

Babs I responded to your post on obesityhelp.com.

It's so funny to meet more people who actually been in Holland here.The 3 of us really should keep in touch.This is gonna be fun.

Leo...your parents still live in Holland?....don't you miss them?

And yeah....I have been craving a patatje oorlog too......and a kroket,frikandel,slaatje and all of those other things we can't have.Although I must confess that I took a bite of my son's patatje just for the taste of it.LOL:D

But I miss drinking milk the most.I love milk and hot choc.I used to dip a speculaascookie in my hot choc....no more.....oh well...maybe in the future I can have at least one speculaas.

But I know I'm gonna eat my chocolade letter when it's sinterklaas though;)

Jeunesse

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Jeunesse, Leo

My husbands parents now live in FLA in St. Augustine. THey retired there a few years ago, but they are from Den Haag. My husbands brother lives in Maine near the Canadian border. I met my husband in the American Hotel in Amsterdam in the Leidseplein. We were the only two people having a Heineken and started talking to eachother. My husband worked for IBM both in Uithoorn and also in the US. He now works at Motorola. I miss gevulde koekjes and oude kaas. I also miss sate, but I do make my own version of it here in the US. My husband misses dubbel Zout licorice. Yuccchhhh! I notice from your diary that you eat very little!!!! YOu definitely eat less than I do. I exercise about three times a week at the gym, but not as long as you do. Go girl!!!!

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Hi Babs,

I haven't added my dinner yet though.

Still have to update that.But all in all I still eat a little and drink lotsa Water,tea and juice.

My tummy already seems to be like Jello and I have been doing research to find out as much as possible about a Tummy Tuck next year.I also want my teeth to be laserbleached.I have pretty white teeth but I want them as white as paper....LOL:D

About the food....yes I love gevulde koekjes too but I don't like oude kaas nor dubbelzoute drop.My hubby John loves it though:)

I have a very good recipe for indonesian sate sauce I will look it up for you a post it if you want.I found a couple of good english websites with dutch recipes.Yeah...even for gevulde koek...LOL:D

http://www.godutch.com/windmill/recipes.asp?id=6

http://www.pellatuliptime.com/recipes.html

Leo it even has a recipe for kroket.

But don't eat too much...we're lapbanders now.:rolleyes:

(((hugs)))

Jeunesse

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Hi Jeunesse!

Can I too be a member of the honorary Dutch club? My husband is Belgian (Flemish) from Ostend - which is almost Dutch! Also, we have friends in the US who lived in Hilversum for 2 years - they worked for Lucent (oh, well.....) and we visited there last Summber before they returned from the US.

One thing I noticed in Holland (or should I say, The Netherlands) is how disciplined the drivers are. First, they keep to the speed limit (which is low) and then they always pull in after overtaking - both these disciplines are unknown to French drivers!

I was thinking about the sunny, bright and sparkely things on this thread. With your name, meaning 'youth', I guess you also have to be young, sunny, bright and sparkely here!:rolleyes:

Anyway, I think we're almost surgery twins - I had my band fitted on 5 August, though I'm not losing as fast as you. I discovered on Monday that my band is open (even though the surgeon said he put 4ml in it) and I can eat anything. Of course, up until Monday I didn't know this so although I've been hungry I was too scared to eat anything with major lumps in for fear of throwing up! Of course, now that I know that won't happen.........

Yikes! I'd better get down to the gym! I see you're already doing that so I'd better do what I promised myself I'd do and sign up today!

Good luck with the weight loss!

Sarah

(not sparkely by name or young by any means, but definitely a wanabee)!

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Hi Sarah:)

Nice to meet you.

Yes my name means youth in french;) My mom loved the word and gave it to me as a name.A lot of people ask me how to pronounce it...something which is very hard to explain in english...LOL:D

Your hubby is from Oostende,Belgium.Never been there but we do go to Belgium a lot by car.The fries and chocolates are way better then ours.Ofcourse no fires and chocs for me now.

We love to hire a cabin in the Ardennen.It's beautifull there.

About the band...mine hasn't had a fill either.Here in Holland they don't fill during surgery.You get your first fill about 2-3 months after surgery and only if you're not losing around 2-4 lbs a week.They don't want you to loose weight to fast.Ofcourse I'm still loosing weight at a steady rate so I think I can forget a fill for awhile.

I still eat and chew carefully and haven't thrown up either.Twice I had pain after I drank some milk and once when I turned quickly the port hurt.Which ofcourse gave me the creeps;)

Today I saw a bunch of friends in town when John and I were shopping and they were shocked how much weight I lost.

Such a great way to shock people huh?

One day I hope they don't even recognize me....LOL:D

(((hugs)))

Jeunesse

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Hi Jeunesse!

Great to meet you - yep, add to the chocs and chips, the beer, of course!

Just looked at your fitday journal - very impressed! Great weight loss!

I proved to myself I can eat more or less anything at the moment - cold roast chicken 100 g, grated carrots 50 g, 5 cm baguette (oh, the French bread is so wonderful!!!) 50 g (?) and a natural yoghourt 100g. Trouble is, my surgeon told me to eat only a 100 g per meal..........

I'm seeing him tomorrow and I'm going to beg him for a fill. I get really hungry and, though I'm eating much less and much healthier than before, I'm scared I'm going to let go.......:rolleyes:

I think I'd better get on to fitday - seems like a great idea!:D

TTFN,

Sarah

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Can I join too? Haven't been to Holland but have been host mom for 2 foreign exchange students from Holland, also another one from Sweden who is living in Amsterdam now and is marrying a "Hollandic".

We hosted them back 10 years ago, but they have been back 2x and we talk every other month. What a wonderful experience - while our own kids were little! I can't wait for them to come back this time. The band has been a wonder thing!

Dee

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