Ivy fiancé and I are long distance again atm because of his job but I was wondering if long distance toys/masturbation are out of the question 1 week post op

No reason why not...you can be as vigourous or not as you choose.

Go for your life. Face time him too...

WTF - Why dont I ever meet girls that care this much about there guy!

1 hour ago, AJ Tylo said:

WTF - Why dont I ever meet girls that care this much about there guy!

All the good ones are taken! (I had to, because that's what women always say, LOL). Women care about sex and their men, you just have to find the right one.

1 hour ago, AJ Tylo said:

WTF - Why dont I ever meet girls that care this much about there guy!

Newsflash. Some women like sex for themselves, not just for their man. This news may help you throughout the rest of your life.

Wow, the things I learn on BariatricPal...?

1 hour ago, JessLess said:

Newsflash. Some women like sex for themselves, not just for their man. This news may help you throughout the rest of your life.

I'm one of those women, I like sex for myself and then him.

"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with", even if it's yourself!

12 hours ago, izzybear420 said:

Ivy fiancé and I are long distance again atm because of his job but I was wondering if long distance toys/masturbation are out of the question 1 week post op

If it feels good do it... up to a point. lol

15 minutes ago, Billy Bob said:

If it feels good do it... up to a point. lol

What point would that be? I certainly hope you are not trying to embarrass women for liking sex because sexism like that would be extremely inappropriate and I would probably report it.

I didn’t start this topic to cause drama or make anyone feel uncomfortable, I am a blunt honest person and as a 32yr old young adult I do have sexual needs as does my fiancé, this thread is to get serious answers from those who have came to this point.. thank you all for your answers and input

48 minutes ago, JessLess said:

What point would that be? I certainly hope you are not trying to embarrass women for liking sex because sexism like that would be extremely inappropriate and I would probably report it.

You know what they say about people who can't take a joke...

11 minutes ago, Billy Bob said:

You know what they say about people who can't take a joke...

Like everything, talk to your surgeon, i personally as a male, had no issues either way after 2 weeks. Then again im a male so i cant speak for women. Good luck!

what if I have a weak erection?