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I have been working with my endocrinologist for a year now, and have finally received a surgery date of Sept. 19, 17. Starting my 2 week pre-op soon and would like to know if anyone out there would like to be a buddy while going through the pre-op thru surgery to post-op. I have a bit of good support and think I need to communicate with someone who actually knows what I am going thru. Not that it matters but I am a male, 61 yrs and live in Kansas. 275#, 5'9", BMI 40. I am going to lose minimum 75# as I am broad shouldered and don't want to get to skinny, just healthy enough to get off of meds for diabetes 2, high blood pressure, some bi-polar issues if this is possible and sleep apnea.

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Hi - My surgery date is September 12 with the same surgeon. I'd love to be your buddy. I am dealing with some of the same co-morbidities. My goal is to get off meds and the CPAP. I travel some for work and it's a pain to have to drag that machine along all the time. I start the pre-op diet on August 29 and have to travel for work at least twice while on the liquid diet. Ugh!

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Sounds great, so since we live in the same area and have the same Dr. with our sleeves being 1 week apart, that's unique.

Your'e not far off from starting your 2 week pre-op, how are you dealing with that? I am starting that phase in a few weeks and coping with it OK for now, but when the day comes I will be ready. Psychology plays a huge role I am finding out in this new journey.

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I am getting a bit nervous about it. You are correct. Psychology will play a huge part. I'm still second guessing my decision at times when my dad questions me about why I am having the surgery. Do you know anyone personally who has had the surgery?

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I have a friend that had the sleeve surgery and she has done very well. She is one of my go to people in my support group. Since you are seeing Dr. Fearing, I would call her office for a support group. I went to one 2 weeks ago and it helped a lot.

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Hello! I've been looking for a September support group. My surgery date is September 12. I am dealing with a range of emotions (excitement to fear). Could definitely benefit from a support group!

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Just got my surgery date yesterday, Sept 13th.

Anxious, nervous... concerned about two week liquid diet... miss my coffee...

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RSM I'm 60 and had my sleeve surgery 8/31/17. My main goal was to get off my meds for diabetes and cholesterol. Upon being discharged from the hospital all four of my diabetes meds were discontinued. Pre surgery my glucose was 200-210. Now its 89-106. It looks like I might be able to reverse my diabetes. Time will tell. Good luck on your surgery.


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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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