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I'm having surgery in the am. I asked my mom to help me a few weeks ago. On Friday she decides to tell me she can't,no reason she just can't. So I find other means for my roses and for my dogs. Tonight one of my friends watching my dogs, after only having my 18wk old puppy for 2hrs, messagese bitching about how often the dog goes to the bathroom. So now I have to find someone to watch my dog between now and 8am tomorrow morning because the same friend wants to drop me off 2hrs early in case of traffic. FML

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I'm having surgery in the am. I asked my mom to help me a few weeks ago. On Friday she decides to tell me she can't,no reason she just can't. So I find other means for my roses and for my dogs. Tonight one of my friends watching my dogs, after only having my 18wk old puppy for 2hrs, messagese bitching about how often the dog goes to the bathroom. So now I have to find someone to watch my dog between now and 8am tomorrow morning because the same friend wants to drop me off 2hrs early in case of traffic. FML

Damn, that's terrible. I can't stand people like that. I hope you can find someone reliable to help you out. Maybe a neighbor? Keep us posted, please. And good luck tomorrow!

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Good things are happening!!!! Sometimes when I feel like this (although it's VERY hard to do) I just laugh and tell the devil he's not stealing my victory over food, my joy in life, the love that I have, or my surgery blessing that I KNOW God had a hand in. You are ready to do a GREAT thing for yourself and it seems like someone's trying to interfere with that (he don't want you happy of course) and wants to deter you from a good thing and make you throw in the towel for tomorrow. No matter what you do, mad as you are, tell him out loud that his interference will not work with you ...ever! Just my own personal opinion of course. He loves us being confused and mad about things. Best of luck tomorrow and please keep us posted. We all really do care.

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That's terrible! If you were in southern CA, I would babysit your puppy in a heartbeat. I LOVE dogs. Hang in there. And maybe start looking for nicer friends when you're feeling better! Your mom I have no suggestions for other than to inform her she won't come close to qualifying for mom of the year 2016.

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Well I was sleeved yesterday and everything went fine. My friend took care of my pup like he said but I'll definitely be taking him back asap lol

Glad to hear everything went OK!

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