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waaah!!

so today I discovered I am approved, well kinda...and have been approved for quite awhile! Apparently the doc office gave a specific surgery date instead of a few weeks time frame. So the insurance company was waiting on the doc office to update them , but doc office had no clue they were waiting on them! Are you kidding me?!?!

So I am currently approved for OUTPATIENT surgery, ya know, rip into my stomach, reroute my guts and send me out the door!

So now the doc office is talking to the insurance for inpatient surgery.....bwhahaha this is so emotionally exhausting!!!

stay tuned ...next episode of this sitcom soon!

thanks for listening to me complain...Happy Monday!!!

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Hang in there!! It will all work itself out. Everything is going to work out for you I'm sure. The insurance and the Dr just need to get on the same page is all. Good Luck and just remember it will be so worth everything that you go thru!!

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update!!

got my approval this morning and broke the news to my employer that I will be out for 6 weeks! Still letting him soak in that shock!!

I have scheduled my surgery for Oct 26....so i have time to get my desk in order for my time away!

thanks friends for all your kind words of support!

ok...now I need to make my lists and get my stuff in order. Anyone recommend anything that is not the standard: chewable Vitamins, broths, jellos.....anything that you thought was helpful?

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@@SlimBra Great news!!! It was recommended to me to get a front closure comfy bra (wireless) for post-op. I got sports bras on Amazon. I also picked up several different herbal/flavored teas including "Smooth Move" (to help with constipation). Congrats on your surgery date!!!

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thanks...someone mentioned getting a type of girdle thing...to hold your belly tight...is this something anyone recommends?

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I had my RNY on 9/20. My abdominal binder has been a godsend! I would highly recommend. My team recommended I ask for it as soon as they wanted me to start walking in the hospital. It helps put just enough pressure on your stomach to make it slightly easier to move around without the cumbersome pillow.

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@@SlimBra Bypass wise, I feel terrific. I haven't needed any pain meds in the last two days. I had a little setback with a post op infection and have been pretty nauseous (I think because the antibiotic is a horse pill even cut in half, lol)

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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