Aussie newbie

[nikki_s 0]

Hi there, I'm Nikki from Sydney AUS and I have my surgery booked for Aug 22nd. I am excited but very apprehensive. Look forward to chatting with you and sharing experiences - I need all the support I can get. One question though. Is it normal to have second thoughts as your surgery date approaches? I'm hoping it's just last minute nerves!!!

[littleroo1 0]

Hi Nikki - welcome!

It is perfectly normal to have second thoughts! My surgery is 9/5 and I think I'm nervous, anxious, and excited - all rolled into one! I told my DH to be calm and remind myself of all the reasons why I'm doing this when I am going through one of my "I'll talk myself out of it phases".

It helps to have a list in front of you and I know for me, the side to do it far outweighs the side to not. It's OK to reach out and say "I need help!". Glad to have you here!!

[mare5569 0]

Oh boy as you read through other posts you will see that you ARE NORMAL!!! Many of us have had second, third, and fourth etc thoughts. My surgery is tomorrow, and I am still going what am I doing. Yet, as mentioned look at your list for doing this and keep reminding yourself of the positive. You will make it.:whoo:

[nikki_s 0]

Thanks for your reply. Good luck with your surgery tomorrow. Let us know how you go!

Nikki