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Heatherrc1    37

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I was scheduled for July 10th and my Dr was in and when he went to lift my liver he found two masses on it. He has sent off a biopsy and should get the results Tuesday or Wednesday, but I can't tell you how disappointing this all is. Same pain and procedure minus the sleeve. I'm certain the biopsy will turn out benign and we will schedule another date then.

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Heatherrc1    37

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I had a very large mass on my liver, too. My doctor removed it and did the surgery. You'll have your surgery and this will be nothing but a blip on the radar eventually.

Ugh! The soreness from the surgery is not bad. I'm depressed from the meds I think. Also the fact this happened for nothing this time around. I'm ready to get the results and get scheduled to make this happen!

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AfitRN2015    33

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I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope everything turns out alright and you get your surgery soon.

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Sharon1964    2,530

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Sending good thoughts your way.

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alicia54    36

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so sorry about what is going on better to fix the liver problem to get healthy then the whole new you will be ready to feel good and look good. good luck ali

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The Candidate    3,215

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I'm so sorry and hope that everything turns out well in the end. I know it was a terrible disappointment to weather.

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BizzyB    119

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How frustrating! I can only imagine how disappointing that will be. Sending thoughts your way that the biopsy comes back clear and that you are quickly put back on track for your surgery!

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Heatherrc1    37

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Thank you all for your kind words. I will say of this is the pain that I can expect after surgery I will be good to go! No pain medicine at all today. I have been able to move around the house and piddle in the kitchen. I don't think I will hardly be ready for work tomorrow, but maybe Tuesday or Wednesday. I will say I am eating a cheeseburger this afternoon and I don't feel the least bit guilty about it! After that back on my liquid so I will be ready when he can get me back on the schedule!

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Jersrose43    837

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Wishing you the best.

This is a positive thing. Don't look upon it with negative thoughts.

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Heatherrc1    37

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Wishing you the best.

This is a positive thing. Don't look upon it with negative thoughts.

Absolutely not! I believe in divine intervention and I know it didn't happen for A reason. It will happen eventually.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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