Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

10 month Post op - the whole story possible tmi



Recommended Posts

It's funny because a lot of people look at my experience and think "that's awful" and get scared by it. I would not change it. I have no fear of "failure" that so many people talk of because of how sensitive my stomach is. I can eat the absolute worst that my body will let me and I won't gain weight. So many people talk about this being a tool and I totally agree but I have been fortunate enough to have an incredible sensitive sleeve and I LOVE it. It is about as close to a "cure" for me as I could possibly get! I LOVE MY PUKE-INESS!!!! I will tell you it is 100% worth any misery you may experience. Incision pain will go away, nausea will at least become more manageable. You learn to adapt to the way you can eat and will learn to love NOT thinking about food all the time! Granted there are people with post-op complications and my heart goes out to them... that's a whole other ball game.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

thanks for sharing your story. great work. I am proud of you!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

What a story! Now look how beautiful you are ????

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hi Megan,

You look awesome! So sorry you had some bad experiences in the beginning. I'm so glad you didn't let that stop you from pushing forward.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I never heard of smelling. It's never been mentioned at my support group meetings. Can others smell you? I've been in public and have crossed paths with obesity people that smell extremely bad. I always thought it was because of their excess skin. I have an apron and not only use my deodorant under my arms but my breasts, and stomach. I'm so afraid of smelling.

You endured a lot. I hope things continue to become easier for you!

Thank you for sharing.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow it was great reading your experience and you look fantastic just the way you are, congratulations!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I really enjoyed reading your story. By the way, I think you were beautiful in your before picture even though you didn't see it. You look gorgeous now, I can't wait to wear a cute skirt like that.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

That was some awesome story. Keep it up. :) You look great!!! :blink:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

AMAZING! Thank you for sharing your story. I'm 9 days post op and feel great. I know I'm lucky. I was able to walk several laps around the hospital the night of surgery. I'm looking forward what the future holds and your story has inspired me!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You and I sounds like the same person! I have many of the same reasons for wanting the surgery. To be able to do more of what I already do, with less sweating, heavy breathing and feeling like the fattest mom in the room. I hope I can be as successful as you. You look amazing!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You were beautiful before and after. I bet it feels so good to be "normal". I always feel like people are looking at me and thinking how fat I am. My surgery is set for October 14th. I go do all my pre op stuff tomorrow. I am very nervous. Thanks so much for sharing. It helps to know what to expect.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Your story is very similar to mine. I had surg march 11. As of today, 9/26 I am down 100 lbs. I'm getting worried actually. I'm lucky if I get down 10 bites of food a day. Nothing tastes good. I sip Water throughout the day at work snd it too makes me nauseous. I miss eating, honestly. But, I am only 47 and my dr told me if I didn't lose the weight I was going to hsve a stroke or heart attack. My BP was 200 / 110 pretty consistently and no mstter how dr tweaked my meds, we couldn't get it back down into a healthy range. It was my son who encouraged me the most. I'm happy I had the surgery. If I'd known then what I know now, not too sure I'd go through with it. Most days I feel grest. Honestly, I look amazing. Some days I have to do a double take in the mirror. People I haven't seen since before surgery don't recognise me. It is also awesome to be able to shop and not get depressed because nothing fits or it all looks terrible. And you're right about the feelings of embarrassment. I hated being the fat lady.

Thanks for sharing your story. Honestly, it was like resding my own. And you do look incredible. The happiness and peace is in your smile. Keep up the great work snd keep us posted on your progress.

Megan B / Washington state

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

What month did the stinky smell start? I wonder if this happens with a lot of people? Two months out, no smell yet>

I noticed the stinking smell the first week but it didnt last but a week or two, its an odd smell and I thought something was wrong but I found out abt it here on. BARIATRICPAL :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Enjoyed hearing abt your amazing honest story!! You look amazing!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I never heard of smelling. It's never been mentioned at my support group meetings. Can others smell you? I've been in public and have crossed paths with obesity people that smell extremely bad. I always thought it was because of their excess skin. I have an apron and not only use my deodorant under my arms but my breasts, and stomach. I'm so afraid of smelling.

You endured a lot. I hope things continue to become easier for you!

Thank you for sharing.

I found quite a few posts on here about it actually. It's all about sugar/calorie intake. It's not the same smell that some of the really large people get. It smells nothing like regular BO and isn't even musty smelling. For me it was this weird bitter smell. My husband claimed he didn't notice unless I stuck my skin up against his face but I swear I smelled it any time I moved. It was my whole body, not just armpits, under breasts or anything. My forearms even smelled. it was weird.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • vsg.with.sharon

      Hey everyone!
      I’m new here! Looking for some friends! 🥰
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 3 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×