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So as many of you know, I am waiting on RNY gastric bypass. In the meantime alot has happened. I have started my journey as of Jan 13. I found out that switching from Caresource to Molina insurance... I am eligible to have my program cut from 9mos to 6mos. Yay! 3 months sooner. :) I'm so ready for it. We are submitting in june for approval.

In the meantime... my life is a chaotic hell. Many of u know I have been going thru a divorce. Im ok with that. That was my decision. Now I just wish he would find a hobby other than buggin the heck outta me! He calls 50+times a day. Hes driving me up a wall. He wont move on and keeps calling me telling me he loves me and misses me...blah blah blah. But the reality of this is he doesnt miss me...he misses.me supporting his sorry butt. Thats all he misses. Nothing more.

As tho this isnt stressful enough... on March 17th...I got the phone call that my mom (who lives in wv...I live in ohio 2 hrs away) was found slumped over...blue...and unresponsive at her desk at home. So they called a squad and had take. her to the local ER. Ok fine. I go down scared to death of losing my mom. she was intubated and put on full life support in their ICU unit. :(

After a week of watching a bunch of moron drs that honeslty made me ask one dr..."how the hell he even got a license?" I had decided to transfer her to OHIO State University Hospital in tue MICU unit

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I'm so sorry about your mom. I too am doing the divorce thing. My choice this time. Mine wont talk or answer questions. I have no idea where he is or here to send notices either. Does he know About your surgery? Mine could be in April, but will need to wait until May. I am so very ready for this!

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I'm so sorry about your mom. I too am doing the divorce thing. My choice this time. Mine wont talk or answer questions. I have no idea where he is or here to send notices either. Does he know About your surgery? Mine could be in April, but will need to wait until May. I am so very ready for this!

So glad ur all ready! Divorce isnt a bad thing if we are the ones initiating it. Yeah he knew about my surgery... he knew it was gonna be in sept... now its in june tho. Lol .

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