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Hey sorry if lately I'm all into my self & not being supportive of others. I had all my medical history down pack & wala I get deny for SSDI. I'm so PESSED off but I'm already in process of a lawyer. I contacted a lawyer that will work on my case & I just did the appeal on line.

Looks like I'm ruining the summer for my kids once again. Ugh! I can't do this to them one more year. God I wasn't expecting to be deny.

If I'm quiet or not much in here it's just me so no worries this will be over soon I hope.

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Hey sorry if lately I'm all into my self & not being supportive of others. I had all my medical history down pack & wala I get deny for SSDI. I'm so PESSED off but I'm already in process of a lawyer. I contacted a lawyer that will work on my case & I just did the appeal on line.

Looks like I'm ruining the summer for my kids once again. Ugh! I can't do this to them one more year. God I wasn't expecting to be deny.

If I'm quiet or not much in here it's just me so no worries this will be over soon I hope.

Stay strong! Your in my prayers..... It is frustrating but a lawyer got my SSA Disability approved, it took over two years but I'm thankful I hung in there.take care.

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Praying for u! It's not easy to get approved, but all things are possible ;)

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It's really hard to get approved for SSDI the first time around. You need to appeal, sometimes more than once. Don't get discouraged, nearly everyone is denied the first time, Just keep trying.

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Hey sorry if lately I'm all into my self & not being supportive of others. I had all my medical history down pack & wala I get deny for SSDI. I'm so PESSED off but I'm already in process of a lawyer. I contacted a lawyer that will work on my case & I just did the appeal on line.

Looks like I'm ruining the summer for my kids once again. Ugh! I can't do this to them one more year. God I wasn't expecting to be deny.

If I'm quiet or not much in here it's just me so no worries this will be over soon I hope.

Get a lawyer or advocate. The regularly deny the first time.

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Get a lawyer or advocate. The regularly deny the first time.

I know someone who was wheelchair bound from a stroke and got denied the first time..

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I know a lot of people with it who really don't need it.

Millions of people abuse these systems every day.. then the people who really need it get denied.

Hope you figure it out soon.

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I know a lot of people with it who really don't need it.

Millions of people abuse these systems every day.. then the people who really need it get denied.

Hope you figure it out soon.

Thanks everyone

I was completely deny SSI but was told cuz of my work history I can qualify for SSDI to be deny like wtf. I want an MRI on my back done. I'm gonna contact my doctor. I know there is something wrong I can't be in horrible pain and not have anything.

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Sorry you were denied. We are in the same boat. We are awaiting the trial date. Don't give up!

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Sorry you were denied. We are in the same boat. We are awaiting the trial date. Don't give up!

I'm not giving up. I want that MRI cuz I know with that the proof will be there. I want to present it to the judge. Maybe I won't need the blood sucking lawyer if I get it done. You know lawyers take some of your money if you win. Idk if its worth having a lawyer or not. My mom was deny twice with a lawyer & on the 3rd try was approve. I honestly don't believe there is anything wrong with her but she won finally. She never worked in her life but I have & now I can feel something is wrong with me. Like at 3 months structure in my tummy I knew something was wrong almost 7 days non stop vomiting wala problem solve. So I know. You know your body.

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I'm not giving up. I want that MRI cuz I know with that the proof will be there. I want to present it to the judge. Maybe I won't need the blood sucking lawyer if I get it done. You know lawyers take some of your money if you win. Idk if its worth having a lawyer or not. My mom was deny twice with a lawyer & on the 3rd try was approve. I honestly don't believe there is anything wrong with her but she won finally. She never worked in her life but I have & now I can feel something is wrong with me. Like at 3 months structure in my tummy I knew something was wrong almost 7 days non stop vomiting wala problem solve. So I know. You know your body.

I really urge you to use a lawyer or advocate who knows the system...I tried it on my own and nearly screwed it up. They will try to trick you into saying your able to do things...like picking up your kids. They don't care if you can do the work you were doing, only if you can do any work like telemarketing or computer work.

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Keep the lawyer.

I have a lawyer now working on my case. Thanks

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It took my sister in law 4 appeals and 5 years to get approved but she got an advocate and lawyer who helped her and in the end they had to back pay her for the 5 years prior,., the lawyer got a percentage but it was still a lot of money plus think about even if the lawyer gets a good amount of money, you will still be getting a monthly income until you you retire and collect social security. If I'm not mistaken you also will get Medicare on disability

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It took my sister in law 4 appeals and 5 years to get approved but she got an advocate and lawyer who helped her and in the end they had to back pay her for the 5 years prior' date='., the lawyer got a percentage but it was still a lot of money plus think about even if the lawyer gets a good amount of money, you will still be getting a monthly income until you you retire and collect social security. If I'm not mistaken you also will get Medicare on disability[/quote']

Damn... I wanna feel I have a chance but I want the MRI to continue fighting for it.

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