What to do

[walleye977 10]

Well I'm half way through the process, hoping to have surgery in may or June. The wife had RNY a year ago and is doing awesome really awesome. She had Pcos and we have tried for years to have a baby and now that she has had Rny and has lost a lot if weight, she is now pregnant which is awesome so excited!!! But wondering if I should post pone my surgery cause my surgery date should be in June and the kid due date is August. I just want to make sure I'm good to go and all healed up for when the kid comes. Think a month to a month and half is enough time in between ?

[gurliepunk12543 111]

Congrats on the 2 of u. I say still go for it bc then there will b another reason next time ya know. And i was up running around 2 weeks later

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[Butterfly66 63]

I agree. Go for it. That way when your baby is born, all three of you will be starting a new life together.

[walleye977 10]

It's going to be a crazy couple months. Im sure I can get through it all. If I don't do it now, who knows when. Still have 5 months to get everything in order, right?

[Kellyk2511 282]

I haven't had mine yet (February) but I wanted to say congrats on the baby and on your wife's success!

[Expat 27]

congrats on the comming baby. I had my surgery on sept 10 2012 and my 3rd daughter was born on oct 11 2012. I was nicely healed and ready to go. You should be fine.

[Sparklette 381]

I would go for it before the baby comes. You won't really have another opportunity for the next 18 years lol.

[walleye977 10]

Thanks

[kellbell5 35]

I'm with everyone else! You totally need to do it before. That way you've done the hardest of the healing portion. Cause when the baby comes its going to be a while before you and your wife will feel like you can take a couple weeks for you to be out of service. If you know what I mean.... I definitely say do it start your whole family off on the right foot

A second thought is also, you being on a restricted diet as well might help influence her to stick to her healthy eating habits. Pregnancy, nursing and baby hormones I think can derail you if your not careful. It might be helpful to her.

[Vicki Loichinger 444]

I agree with everyone else, go for it. I think it will be good for all of you. I am so glad you wife has had such success and that your family is being blessed with a little one. Now get healthy Daddy so you can play and play and play with that little one. Wishing you the very best, to all of you.

[pookybear 284]

Better to do it now than when you're trying to chase around a toddler lol

Congrats!

[ElleG 394]

CONGRATS!!! That is AWESOME news for you guys!

[walleye977 10]

Thanks everyone it now or never. Just wish it didn't take so long, seem's like this is dragging on.