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So i read alot about how unsapportive husbands and family in general are about us getting our surgerys.. Im so sorry to those who have to go thru that :( but i wanted to start a thread to say thanks to those who are supportive! My husband is 41 i am 27... Yeah he robbed the craddle lol ;) he is in the army and not overweight. He met me when i was overweight but not this big. He has loved me unconditionaly! He was amazingly supportive of me when i decided to get this surgery done and has been my rock thru it all! We have 8month old twins and a two year old and he has been amazing with taking care of them while ive been recovering. The sweet heart even avoids eating around me so i dont feel bad :) and bless his heart he has been drinking those awful protien shakes right along with me! Hes my best friend and i just wanted to share how great he has been! He also tells me everyday that no matter how i look im always his queen :)) my family and friends that do know have also been wonderful! They check up on me all the time and everyone is so excited for my weight loss journey :) i think people know me tp well tp say anything stupid to me anyway lol. They would be shot down real fast!! So i thank god everyday for the most amazing husband and friends and family! Im so blessed!!!

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You are truly blessed to have such a wonderful husband !!!! sounds like you are doing well :)

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that makes me smile. I am so happy for you. My Hubby is very supportive too. Not always totally understanding of the process but not negative in any way. My family has been very supportive also. And it does truly help.

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My husband wasn't supported but he is fine with it now & doesn't mind me spending money on future plastic surgery even the boobs that he loves so much lmbo

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