Whats the worst remark someone has said to you post op?

My brother told his buddy that I was getting "the lazy surgery". Rude

wow people can be so ignorant....

I know..if he only KNEW..nothing lazy about it..they were just blessed w fit and tone bodies so he doesnt understand the struggle.

I was going to say there is nothing lazy about having the surgery....All the prep you have to do before and what you have to do to make the sugery successful..My dr. told me the surgery is a tool...one that I have to take good care of...I get so pissed when people critize me for what I did to help better myself...

Dont ever let anyones negativity change your mood. We can change the way we look but they cant fix their stupidity. =)

I know.......

They just don't know how much we suffered/ suffer everyday. Before with the weight and illnesses and now with trying to use the tool to make us healthy so we can be 'normal'.

It makes me angry and sad. Easy way out. Blah. I will refrain from swearing.

I am 6 weeks post OP and my father gave me a hug the other day and told me that he was glad he finally got his daughter back. As if I was hiding in a fat suit before oye. I told my husband and he said I should have asked my father

when I was going to get my dad back as my dad is very overweight right now. Just makes you wonder what people really thought about you before. Sad

My Mom said..you know your just going to gain it all back.. X boyfriend said omg your going to be hot again..yeah your still a drunk I told him. Plus I'm married. My husband hadn't said much as he deployed overseas weeks after surgery.

TakeThat back the worst comment I got so far is my own husband calling me bipolor when I tried to explain how I was feeling about how he doesnt listen or care about my thoughts or feelings...

TakeThat back the worst comment I got so far is my own husband calling me bipolor when I tried to explain how I was feeling about how he doesnt listen or care about my thoughts or feelings...

Sounds like something my husband would say ugh!

Im just chalking him up to be a bonehead...lol..the next time he wants to get a little something something..im going to tell him not tonight dear my bipolar is kicking in..

Im just chalking him up to be a bonehead...lol..the next time he wants to get a little something something..im going to tell him not tonight dear my bipolar is kicking in..

Good one

Mine happened over the holidays' date=' we were at a family members house for christmas and the minute I walk in the door I get dirty looks for a younger member of the family who also herself is overweight...well of course I didnt get to voice what i would like to have for the meal, so they made lasanga, ok that was fine but I of course can not eat pasta..So I made do and pick the one that had the cheese on it and picked through it with out eatting the pasta part with some added cottage cheese, so I could get my protien. and I had some pudding from a desert that was made by gave my husband the chocolate that was on top...So still keeping with in the guidelines of my food intake. I get home and my son was upset about something so I talk to him and he told me the family members were in the kitchen bad mouthing me and that I was lying about what I can and can not eat...Now this didnt upset me because I knew and expect this reaction..But what was hurtful was that they did this in front of my son and he doesnt understand why they had to be so negative. I tried to explain to him that it didnt bother me but I could tell it really hurt.[/quote']

Wow. This actually managed to disgust me. I'm sorry this happens in your family

- Kaylee Ann ~ Surgerversary 6/11/2012

The otherday someone said to me, "oh, you look normal now"...... Wtf? Was i like a weirdo before because i have an extra 60lbs?! Smh...... Ugh