My update 357lbs to 233

[jgirly86 2]

Life has been tough very tough for me since surgery. I found out my husband was cheating on me and walked out on me two weeks or so after surgery (aug 22, 2012)I then moved out of my parents because they werent very supportive and then hit depression and was diagnosed with major depression and then met a wonderful guy who I dated for two months but broke up because I found out he had a baby on the way. We keept seeing eachother and I just found out im pregnant 2 days ago. Im very scared. This would b my first child and hes not wanting me to keep it but I have strong beliefs about abortion so thats not a option for me. Im worried that after all my hard work I might gain a lot of weight and not be able to hit my goal weight...im sooo proud of my success but now feel like it was all for nothing. My starting weight was 357 and im at 233 today my surgery date was aug 18, 2012.

[superstartover 101]

You are quite the beauty. Children are a true blessing you will likely lose the weight fairly quickly especially if you chose to breastfeed. So sorry that you have gone through all this turmoil but i hope your are stonger and more confident having weathered the storm.

[jgirly86 2]

aww thank yuhh...preciate it. I hope i can handle everything on my own..i havent told my parents yet and i think that will be the topper...my parents are very religious and im scared of theyre reaction,,,i know im not a kid anymore but they mean alot to me and i need all the help or support i can get so i hope they are understanding...this is \sooooo overwhelming.

[superstartover 101]

We all take our path things dont always work out in the order they should for.me it was single mom college another kid college marriage college two more kids graduate kid now i have my business and am truly happy. Honestly i thing god puts us through these trials so that we can appreciate the true things that come from it. You can handle anything that you put your mind too and although we make mistakes along the way you just gotta keep trying and though your parents might be upset with you they will likely come around thats what unconditional love is. You will know this when you meet your baby its an amazing kind of love that is overwhelming.

[ProudGrammy 8,322]

Life has been tough very tough for me since surgery - . Im worried after all my hard work I might gain weight - 357 im at 233 today

jgirly86

Wow!!!

you've lost 124 lbs

amazing - good for you

beautiful pictures

sorry you are dealing with many personal problems

there is a pregnancy site on the board

i've heard and seen many people in your situation

you could/should talk to them

i've heard many comments from other "preggo's , and they gained some healthy necessary weight for the baby

but they were successful with taking the weight back off

wishing you well, hopefully things will gradually work out

good luck

keep up the good work

kathy

congrats

[ebonisekim 1,713]

You gone do great .. Love your life .. Life about having kids if you choose don't let the sleeve work you work that sleeve don't limit yourself getting the sleeve was for u to have a better life a fulfilling life .. Live it honey and focus on keeping u and the baby healthy .. Stay on the forum for support its a thread on here .. Get advise from other women going through it

[ebonisekim 1,713]

Oh your weightloss is great ..congrats