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I am 49 years old (until Valentine's Day). I am a mom and a grandma. I have steadily gained weight over the last 20 years and I have mobility issues due to degenerative facet joint disease. I have all of the usual morbidly obese issues such as diabetes, hypertension, fatty liver, arthritis, cardiac issues, asthma, etc.All of my doctors and specialists are on board with me seeing a weight loss surgeon tomorrow and they have had a conference call already.

I have Medicare and since last summer I have been seeing my doctors regularly and we have tried weight loss meds, physical therapy, counselling, etc. I had a medial branch block performed Oct 31, Nov. 7th and Nov.14th, 2012. It is a 3 part procedure to help with pain but it didn't work. I used to be over 300lbs and on continuous oxygen. I have got off all the oxygen but have only lost 15lbs. I am out of my power chair most of the time now but in order to go out to a store or meeting without it I have to take 2 pain pills, a muscle relaxer and numbing Patches on my knees. And when I take all of that medicine i start itching from the pain med.

I can use as much encouragement as possible. They have been talking about the Lap band and the gastric sleeve and it looks like I prefer the sleeve. I graduate with a Bachelors degree in Social & Criminal Justice next January so this could be a new start for me. I look forward to getting to know everyone.

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congrats on your decision, its the best thing I did , and would never give it a second thought to doing it again !!! I will save you a spot on the loozers bench next to me for you !!!

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I am 49 years old (until Valentine's Day). I am a mom and a grandma. I have steadily gained weight over the last 20 years and I have mobility issues due to degenerative facet joint disease. I have all of the usual morbidly obese issues such as diabetes' date=' hypertension, fatty liver, arthritis, cardiac issues, asthma, etc.All of my doctors and specialists are on board with me seeing a weight loss surgeon tomorrow and they have had a conference call already.

I have Medicare and since last summer I have been seeing my doctors regularly and we have tried weight loss meds, physical therapy, counselling, etc. I had a medial branch block performed Oct 31, Nov. 7th and Nov.14th, 2012. It is a 3 part procedure to help with pain but it didn't work. I used to be over 300lbs and on continuous oxygen. I have got off all the oxygen but have only lost 15lbs. I am out of my power chair most of the time now but in order to go out to a store or meeting without it I have to take 2 pain pills, a muscle relaxer and numbing Patches on my knees. And when I take all of that medicine i start itching from the pain med.

I can use as much encouragement as possible. They have been talking about the Lap band and the gastric sleeve and it looks like I prefer the sleeve. I graduate with a Bachelors degree in Social & Criminal Justice next January so this could be a new start for me. I look forward to getting to know everyone. [/quote']

I am much younger and have sane co-morbities and my surgeon refused lapband on me. I get my surgery date on Fri. Its been a long 2 year stuggle for me. I have severe osteoarthritis in all my joints. I have to have this or I will be wheelchair bound in a matter of time.

I iwsh you the best of luck and therebis a lot of support here :)

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I'm younger and lighter and still have hypertension and fatty liver and joint pain! I was sleeved on dec 18 2012! I think you are making the right decision! Originally I wanted the band, and my surgeon was fine with that, but all the issues with fills and refills and stuff like that made me rethink it (especially being a self pay!)

Boy am I ever glad I did! My cousin got the Lapband at a pretty high starting weight (I don't know exactly, but probably close to 300), she lost 30 pounds post OP because of the diet, but has maintained since (like a year later), she vomits all the time and can't tolerate healthy foods like veggies and Protein, she gets really sick, so she eats sweets a lot of the time :( which is why she's not losing. I hate throwing up, so I'm sooooo happy I got the sleeve! I never push it too far (in my opinion. I drink half of what I think I can and I wait ten minutes and I'm usually full enough... In fact I don't really ever feel hungry! The joy of losing grehlin with your stomach! Unfortunately most bodies recover it after a year or so which I'm not excited for! I love not being hungry!

Anyways! Good for you!

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I am 49 years old (until Valentine's Day). I am a mom and a grandma. I have steadily gained weight over the last 20 years and I have mobility issues due to degenerative facet joint disease. I have all of the usual morbidly obese issues such as diabetes' date=' hypertension, fatty liver, arthritis, cardiac issues, asthma, etc.All of my doctors and specialists are on board with me seeing a weight loss surgeon tomorrow and they have had a conference call already.

I have Medicare and since last summer I have been seeing my doctors regularly and we have tried weight loss meds, physical therapy, counselling, etc. I had a medial branch block performed Oct 31, Nov. 7th and Nov.14th, 2012. It is a 3 part procedure to help with pain but it didn't work. I used to be over 300lbs and on continuous oxygen. I have got off all the oxygen but have only lost 15lbs. I am out of my power chair most of the time now but in order to go out to a store or meeting without it I have to take 2 pain pills, a muscle relaxer and numbing Patches on my knees. And when I take all of that medicine i start itching from the pain med.

I can use as much encouragement as possible. They have been talking about the Lap band and the gastric sleeve and it looks like I prefer the sleeve. I graduate with a Bachelors degree in Social & Criminal Justice next January so this could be a new start for me. I look forward to getting to know everyone. [/quote']

Dont worry...u have this. U have made the BEST decision, u are so courageous to have made the decision to live the best life possible by getting ur health in line:) THIS IS YOUR YEAR!

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      1. LeighaTR

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

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        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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