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Hey guys, I know you probably think this isn't a big deal, but in my culture it is seriously bad, and if it were true (which I'm hoping it isn't!) I would probably be kicked out of my home etc. Okay, so my boyfriend and I were dry humping, he had his pants on (cargo denimy pants) and I had my tights and undies on, so we were both dressed etc.. but his pants were abit moist, and so were mine (because we were turned on etc) is there a chance I could be pregnant? I am still a virgin btw.. and I'm extremely nervous :( I did some reading up and everyone says its pretty much unlikely, but I am feeling beyond anxious :(

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No...you'll be fine. But be careful in the future. :)

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No you'll be fine. That happened to me years ago with my ex when we were first together and I was paranoid also but it was nothing. The chances are nearly impossible. You'll be fine. :)

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make him wear a condom next time.....then you will have 0 chances of it....

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make him wear a condom next time.....then you will have 0 chances of it....

I think there's 0 chance anyway for a little guy to swim through 4 layers of clothes and all the way to the uterus lol however if they remove the clothes, a prophylactic wouldn't be a bad idea at all :)

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He didn't orgasm or anything. But I think the thing that is playing on my nervousness is the fact that I was wet, and he was ''moist'' on the top of his pants etc. That moistness wouldnt be enough to make me pregnant right? Lol and ontop of that my periods 2 days late, which is freaking me out.. but it could also be because I've lost 88 pounds in almost 3 and a half months.. I suppose I just need reasurring guys :(

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I REALLY think you can be sure that you aren't pregnant. However, do check to see if there was "a star in the East" at the time. :lol: And yes -- losing that much weight can definitely mess with your TOM!

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Trust me your fine. It's nearly impossible for sperm to swim that far let alone through material. Like I said was paranoid about the same thing years ago but researched it to death and realized it wasn't possible. Don't sweat it, you aren't pregnant!

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If his penis did not go into your vagina, then no you are not pregnant. If his penis entered your vagina, then it is a possibility. No one has ever gotten pregnant by dry humping. If it's getting this serious, I would suggest using condoms. Or get yourself on birth control. You can get them free at local health departments. Or at least you can where I work.

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He doesn't have to go inside to get pregnant if he came on outside but dry humping no way you can getnpregnant

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sperm can travel through clothing ( this is why condoms are not made of fabric but "Rubber " )...they are microscopic and the moistness on his part is pre ejaculation.....just as good as ejaculation... Chances are slim but possible. Call your doctor and get doctors opinion and or take a pregnancy test...two days late.. ought to pick it up by now if you are

wish you well...

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Just to reiterate, sperm die within minutes of being exposed to air ie. outside the penis and outside the vagina. It is highly highly unlikely a pregnancy will occur through this method.

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I agree with sissy Kay, it would be as good as an immaculate conception to get pregnant dry humping with clothes on. I don't know how old you are, based on your "name" your may be in your twenties. Regardless, you need some serious sex education ASAP or you will be pregnant. Is there anyone you can talk to?

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Snicker snicker. That's how I got preggers

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