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LOL. Very cute story about how the plans came about. My husband and I were similar. We weren't necessarily in a hurry however we grew out of our 3 bedroom apartment. I think 4 bedroom apartments are rare..... LOL.... so our next logical step was a house. House plans came first, then the wedding. A little bit backwards, however it is much better than a new house and a wedding at the same time.... whew!

Oh..

Our honeymoon will unfortunately have to wait until next year. I'm thinking about Hedonism II in Jamaica. I would like to go there primarily because children are not allowed... Any thoughts?

I don't know much about " Hedonism II" however, I took a cruise once and one of our stops was in Jamaica. It wasn't necessarily very romantic. I would say, if you don't want to spoil the memory, don't adventure out into the cities. Sad, very sad.

I would say "all inclusive" adult only hotel in cancun. Our trip to cancun was very fun and I was jealous listening to the couples talk about all of the adult games they played at the adult only hotel on one of the dinner cruises we went on and I plan to do that next time we go to Cancun. Mexico has its fair share of unfortunate living arrangements as well, however Cancun has the tourism to "mask" it, if that makes any sense.

Only other thing though is....... to swim with the dolphins in Jamaica is about $50 where in Cancun its about $120 per person. If you want to go snorkeling in Jamaica, LOL, bring your own equipment. It was really gross. However at the hotel we stayed at in Cancun, the equipment was very well sanitized. The only way that I will ever go back to Jamaica is if I stay at 5 star hotel that has everything I would want to do on location with beach front access so that I don't have to adventure away.

Good Luck and congratulations again!

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Oh.. She's a certified caregiver. She takes care of the elderly in a elder care facility.

Our honeymoon will unfortunately have to wait until next year. I'm thinking about Hedonism II in Jamaica. I would like to go there primarily because children are not allowed... Any thoughts?

I've been there twice and had a blast. It's definitely "different" than most resorts...especially depending on when you go. Feel free to contact me if you want more information on Hedo.....but I might not be able to spill too much. After all...what happens at Hedo STAYS at Hedo. :girl_hug:

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Wow... I just realised that I'm gonna have to stay up longer on my bachelor party night than any of the rest of the guys so I do get drawn on with magic marker and pictures taken of me with tea bags...:faint:

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Congratulations. October is a nice month to get married in because it is not too hot nor too cold. It is also a great month to travel in for the same reason. This means that over the years you'll be able to take many great trips and Celebrate your anniversaries at the same time.

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We were married Oct 28th 6 years ago, I agree Oct is a great time to get married. ~Mandy

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So, the bachelor party was a hit. The wedding was beautimous. I got the pictures back but need to scan them in someday to post them here...

they are coming...

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CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!! PRAYING you have MANY years of LOVE and fun!!!!

God Bless,

Melody

Banded 3/20/06 -89lbs :)

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