So, I've always had a very active social.. mainly because I'm a vocalist and run in the music/arts circles.. Anyway, friday night I went to a new karaoke spot to hang out for a bit...So, I sang a song and proceeded to go hang out around the bar area w/ the DJ and his wife... This guy walks up and introduces himself and kind just lingers... I had this look on my face like.. ahhhh... can I help you??... He keeps talking, finally sits down and an hour later.... were talking about what I like to do besides read and shop.. I had to sing another song, so he follows me back to the stage area and just stands there.. .When I'm done singing, he kind of grabs me and showers me w/ all these compliments from my smile to my clothes to my voice.. I'm like.. okay...stalker!! LOL... My friends were like laughing.... I'm in shock that this stranger just grabbed me.. LOL... Previously, I would have found a reason to excuse myself because I would be totally over analyzing things... but, now I feel that life is short, so I may as well have fun!!! Oh, my favorite karaoke DJ (who I have a little crush on), can't seem to keep his hands off of me... I was singing and he walked up behind me, put his head on my shoulder and wouldn't let me go!! LOL... I was like.. Lord have mercy!! GEEZ!!

Then on saturday, we had an event at church.. my ex was there.. He was turned around in his seat, staring at me... I didn't notice at first (well, I thought I was imagining things)... but my friend was like.... Stalker, 10 o'clock!! LOL.... afterwards, he walked up to me w/ his mouth open trying to think of something to say... LOL... I just spoke and walked away, as he stood gaping and wrapping his mind around the fact that he I'm over him!!

So, how do I keep myself out of too much trouble??!!! I've gotten numbers, 'interesting' offers and some fine brothers asking to take me out.... LOL...

WOW!!!!! I wouldn't be able to fit my head back through the door to run away!!! Woo Hooo!!!

Girl, live it up! You're right, life IS too short! Just have fun and don't fall into any dangerous games. This is a fine line you will be walking now. Just try to enjoy it but stay safe!

Girl, go with it and enjoy! Keep your head on straight and have a good time!

Go for it! Awesome!

enjoy the attention and let them shower you with gifts and attention.

OMG! This is awesome! Enjoy every moment of it and remember, you can choose who you give your time too! YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY! I love this NSV! Keep Rockin that Sleeve!

Thanks Ladies.. and no dangerous games here!!! Just FUN!!!

Woooohooo, hotty girl! That confidence and bright light is shining through as the pounds drop, awesome, eh?

Enjoy it and be safe of course.

yay!! I love how funny are favoredone You are doing so great!! I am glad that life is bringing to you positive and happy things

I am sure it makes you walk with a little strut, just remember don't look back when your walking, the brother is probably watching...lol

All I can say is YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!

I'm actually going to a celebration of life dance next week hosted by my Bariatric Center... I'm excited!!!! I haven't gone dancing in YEARS!!!!

I say live it up! Just remember that they may be noticing, but those who wern't interested when you were larger, don't deserve you when you're smaller.

LOL @ stalkers! Don't hog all the men...can you leave me a couple for when I hit the finish line? LOL Nothing like turning heads and knowing you got it!

At Caradina, I hear you... don't necessarily agree fully though.. There's nothing wrong w/ a person have a preference for a certain physical characteristic.. That's not to say something is wrong w/ what they don't prefer...

Rediscover, Sis, trust me.. it's all in fun.. just hanging out... LOL...