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A woman I know on-line still goes to her weight watchers meetings. She did not tell them she had gastric by-pass. She suggested I consider it now that I am pretty far out. She said it helps her keep structure to her eating. So I went for my free weigh in. It was sort of funny. The one thing I have really appreciated in my program is that they do a real test for body fat (Dual-energy X-ray absorptiometry) if you are willing to pay for it and I did. With the excess skin I'm hauling around and my being far more muscular than I appear I wanted a reasonable goal weight. So mine was set at 185. My surgeon said that if I get a Tummy Tuck or an arm lift (which I have a saving account set for and building) that he would rachet me down to 170ish. But as my body stands right now, 185 would be good. And I would be very happy there.

In my weight watchers consultation I was told that at 185 I would be obese and that I need a more realistic body view. What a hoot. I'm in my mid-50's,and my highest weight was 364. (I told them that part) Believe me I have a very clear body view. I know I do because I usually have to lift my boobs up to see it! lol

Here's where I get seriously concerned tho. The woman and I chatted a bit and she said the chart she was using was the chart insurance companies use to determine insurance coverage. I had so hoped that getting my weight down to what would be acceptable to me (and frankly, thinner than most folks I see out and about these days) I could get some reasonably priced insurance next year when my job ends. Maybe not. Or else I have to really speed up on that arm lift and get a tummy tuck whether I want it or not to fit in right on their charts.

---oh, and as a side bar, I met with my friend last week who had her arms done. She's 4 weeks out from surgery, doing great, her arms look amazing!!! The surgeon did a fantastic job. Not only the arms but the side fat and skin that's there in the bra band is gone! She said it was tender but not at all what she would have considered painful and she was back to work -- office job -- in 2 weeks. He took 9 inches off one arm and 8 off the other. She is very similar to me in terms of pre-situation. With the fat and skin and probably a bit of lesser eating, she was down 12.5 pounds the first time she weighed 10 days later. I am sooo going to do this for myself. I am a big chicken surgery wise, but now that I've seem what a huge difference it makes in her appearance, my plan is for next year this time! I'll save and save and then....yea, for decent credit! And Kimmy, I know you lurk here and read so if you see this ---YOU LOOK AMAZING! Great job for doing this for yourself and thanks for leading the way! --

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    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
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    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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