Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

All right, I am really dating myself here...but when I was younger, there weren't thongs, at least not for "real" people. There were rumors that fashion models wore them....I always wore bikini panties until I got fat and started wearing granny panties because the bikini ones looked gross on me or wouldn't stay up on the fat rolls. Now, I am wondering about what size I wear in panties. Has there been downsizing in panty sizes like in pants and dresses? And what does a thong feel like and how long do they take to get used to? I'm in my mid-fifties--am I too old to wear one?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well I'm not one of the ladies here but....

As far as being too old, not unless you THINK you are. If you have the money to buy it, WEAR IT. As for getting used to it, I don't know. Ya got me on that one.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Here's my take on thongs...you can have 1" of material crawl up your rear or 5"...take your pick! lol. I used to wear them ALL the time before I gained all this fart noodling weight, and I can't wait to start wearing them again! They won't take too long to get used to at all.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

When I was a kid - thongs were what they now call flip-flops - and I didn't like the feel of the material rubbing between my toes. I have never gotten past the idea of having material rubbing between other parts of my body. :unsure: I have had younger female family members explain it is kind of like getting use to wearing a bra - soon you won't notice it.

If you like the look of yourself wearing a thong, and don't mind the way it feels - go for it! :lol:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have and continue to wear thongs.....they are much more comfortable and tend to stay in place better than grannie panties :) And I'm sure in another couple of weeks I really should buy some smaller sizes :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well unless you don't mind the feel of a string between the cheeks then good. . .I personally dont like that feeling so I don't wear those. Also, working in a health clinic, I've seen alot of problems caused by these thongs. . especially BV (bacterial vaginosis) soooo having said that. . .

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

If you like it... wear it. :D I like the bikinis. :rolleyes: I am a teacher and most of the girls wear these with hip huggers. You know what is coming next. I can never get the boys behind them to pay attention in class.

Khy

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Really, it doesn't matter when you wear a thong because if worn appropriately, no one knows you have them on. People only know you're wearing a thong when you have ill-fitting pants on, or wear too low of a rise. People familiar with things might be able to guess you're wearing one if you have on white linen pants, or something semi sheer, or really tight & stretchy pants with absolutely no VPL...

But it's kind of like asking when it's appropriate to wear a lace bra, versus a knit bra. Ideally, everyone but you & your most intimate never know the difference, so there isn't really a single point at which it becomes appropriate or inappropriate. Make sense? The concept is much cleaer in my brain, than exiting my mouth...or fingertips...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

U are Never too old to avoid the VPL (visible panty line)! Just purchase ones that are seamless. I like the ones at target the xhillration brand or however it is spelled, they usually have them in individual bins along with selection of bikini and boy short type THEY ARE SUPER COMFY. Victoria secrets has some seemless ones also. Usually I just wear them with anything that might show a panty line, like my dress pants etc. With my denim I usually just wear bikini style.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm the same as you: bikini when young and thin and then hi-rise when fat because I couldn't handle the fat roll over the bikinis. Now I'm wearing "hipsters" that are a nice compromise. As for thongs-help yourself, other people-I couldn't do it.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

LOL! In my day tongs were flip flops too! I have never tried them they just look uncomfortable as hell to me. There doesn't appear to be much vanity sizing in panties. Personally I rather the boy shorts they help hold in and hide the loose tummy skin;) I had trouble figuring what size I wore its not like you can try them on to see the fit (G) Right now I am between a 5 and 6 story of my life I am always between sizes.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I agree with what all the others I have said. I just want to add that when purchasing thongs, pay attention to the material, etc. How the thong is made will directly relate to whether you enjoy wearing them and/or can get used to them. I am also a fan of the Target brand. I like not having a visible panty line and I love how they make make me feel- just a lil' bit sexy. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

To me a thong is just something to wear when you're wearing a tight skirt or tight pants, where you don't want any panty lines to show. I never got around to wearing them for fun because I never found them comfortable.

The only rule I'd say is...never with a short skirt or low cut jeans.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

As for sizes I say buy single panties (not packs) and buy in two different sizes until you find which one fits best. A lot of places are now into just S/M/L/XL sizes for panties but those packs that you might buy at Target still have number sizes. I still don't really have a clue what my number size is but can proudly say I can wear a M panty!!!

Now for thongs, you will get used to them! I SWORE by the V-String back in the day (from Victoria Secrets) because it was the least amount of material in the back. I still perfer to find ones with a small amount of material but can wear just about any! I still have full butt coverage panties, hipsters, boy shorts, you name it I have it! I really depends on my outfit and my MOOD as to what I wear!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thongs are the skinnest, but you can also buy T-backs which are a little wider at the top and more comfortable IMO. I wear T-backs now on occasion and have no problem.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Eve411

      April Surgery
      Am I the only struggling to get weight down. I started with weight of 297 and now im 280 but seem to not lose more weight. My nutrtionist told me not to worry about the pounds because I might still be losing inches. However, I do not really see much of a difference is this happen to any of you, if so any tips?
      Thanks
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Clueless_girl

      Well recovering from gallbladder removal was a lot like recovering from the modified duodenal switch surgery, twice in 4 months yay 🥳😭. I'm having to battle cravings for everything i shouldn't have, on top of trying to figure out what happens after i eat something. Sigh, let me fast forward a couple of months when everyday isn't a constant battle and i can function like a normal person again! 😞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • KeeWee

      It's been 10 long years! Here is my VSG weight loss surgiversary update..
      https://www.ae1bmerchme.com/post/10-year-surgiversary-update-for-2024 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×