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Ljones1    48

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I keep having second thoughts about getting the sleeve surgery! I think my fear is having any sickness that I don't have right now afterwards. No health problems besides Morbid obese current 246 I have one support group class to attend and one more Nutritionists meeting.Please advice

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MsBadu504    45

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I keep having second thoughts about getting the sleeve surgery! I think my fear is having any sickness that I don't have right now afterwards. No health problems besides Morbid obese current 246 I have one support group class to attend and one more Nutritionists meeting.Please advice

I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm 35 250 lbs, PCOS, Fibromyalgia, Sciatica, Insulin resistant, and now my blood pressure is elevating. I'm getting the sleeve because I would love to have a child, not become a diabetic and hypertensive, and live a healthy and happier life. 10 years ago I wouldn't have thought I would be like this, but I know next year I don't want to be where I am today or worse with my health.

Here's a story: 9 yrs ago I was having a breast reduction and all my friends/family told me I didn't need it, but my insurance approved it and I had the surgery. 2 months prior to my surgery I found a lump and all the test said it was cysts. My doctor said he'll remove them during surgery. At my first, post op visit, I was told the cysts was a fist sized tumor; I thank God everyday that is was benign. If it wasn't for me doing something that I was best for me, I may have never found that tumor. With that being said, you have to think about what's best for you. VSG may seem a like BIG life change, but to me it's a BIG & BETTER change.

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awifeinmichigan    233

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I'm not sure how old you are' date=' but I'm 35 250 lbs, PCOS, Fibromyalgia, Sciatica, Insulin resistant, and now my blood pressure is elevating. I'm getting the sleeve because I would love to have a child, not become a diabetic and hypertensive, and live a healthy and happier life. 10 years ago I wouldn't have thought I would be like this, but I know next year I don't want to be where I am today or worse with my health.

Here's a story: 9 yrs ago I was having a breast reduction and all my friends/family told me I didn't need it, but my insurance approved it and I had the surgery. 2 months prior to my surgery I found a lump and all the test said it was cysts. My doctor said he'll remove them during surgery. At my first, post op visit, I was told the cysts was a fist sized tumor; I thank God everyday that is was benign. If it wasn't for me doing something that I was best for me, I may have never found that tumor. With that being said, you have to think about what's best for you. VSG may seem a like BIG life change, but to me it's a BIG & BETTER change.[/quote']

Say that Badu! Speak knowledge.

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Ljones1    48

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Thanks for replying and May you have an successful surgery. I'm 35 too I think it's my nerves. I'm going to talk with my doctor about side effects for one who has ni problems before surgery does that make since?

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Ljones1    48

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Thanks for replying and May you have an successful surgery. I'm 35 too I think it's my nerves. I'm going to talk with my doctor about side effects for one who has ni problems before surgery does that make since?

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Lov3ly773    13

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Hello ladies, I'm new to the forum with Chicago...

I've been considering WLS since 2005, but because of lifes ups and downs... I had to stop the journey :(.

I'm finally in the position to have the surgery. I'm in the beginnig process and I've contacted my insurance company (BCBSIL ***), they of required a letter from my pcp and the surgery would be covered 100% along with the specialist visits (with a referral) with a $10 co-pay. Its really up to my PCP, who I will be meeting for the first time soon. Hoping everything goes smoothly!

Does anyone else have BCBSIL ***? What was your process like?

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awifeinmichigan    233

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Hello ladies' date=' I'm new to the forum with Chicago...

I've been considering WLS since 2005, but because of lifes ups and downs... I had to stop the journey :(.

I'm finally in the position to have the surgery. I'm in the beginnig process and I've contacted my insurance company (BCBSIL ***), they of required a letter from my pcp and the surgery would be covered 100% along with the specialist visits (with a referral) with a 10 co-pay. Its really up to my PCP, who I will be meeting for the first time soon. Hoping everything goes smoothly!

Does anyone else have BCBSIL ***? What was your process like?[/quote']

Hi and Welcome! I have BCBSMI and the requirements are the same unless you have a BMI over 50 which I had so my approval was easy. Good luck to you.

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MsBadu504    45

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Thanks for replying and May you have an successful surgery. I'm 35 too I think it's my nerves. I'm going to talk with my doctor about side effects for one who has ni problems before surgery does that make since?

I think you'll do fine. I'm very nervous. I live in the New Orleans area, and I'm gonna miss eating all the delicious foods but I have to make this sacrifice so I can live longer and healthier. Pray on it.

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Mocha2871    182

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Hello ladies' date=' I'm new to the forum with Chicago...

I've been considering WLS since 2005, but because of lifes ups and downs... I had to stop the journey :(.

I'm finally in the position to have the surgery. I'm in the beginnig process and I've contacted my insurance company (BCBSIL ***), they of required a letter from my pcp and the surgery would be covered 100% along with the specialist visits (with a referral) with a 10 co-pay. Its really up to my PCP, who I will be meeting for the first time soon. Hoping everything goes smoothly!

Does anyone else have BCBSIL ***? What was your process like?[/quote']

Hey I also have BCBSIL and I had to do that too. I went to the seminar where they tell you about everything and then I had to pick a PCP and she understood why I wanted to do it and was happy to ok me doing it. It took 3 to 5 days for them to approve the procedure. I say 3 to 5 days because it was being held up a little because my paper work was not sent in when I was told it would. So for me it was a 4 month process from start to approval with my hospital.

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Lov3ly773    13

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Hey I also have BCBSIL and I had to do that too. I went to the seminar where they tell you about everything and then I had to pick a PCP and she understood why I wanted to do it and was happy to ok me doing it. It took 3 to 5 days for them to approve the procedure. I say 3 to 5 days because it was being held up a little because my paper work was not sent in when I was told it would. So for me it was a 4 month process from start to approval with my hospital.

Yeah, thats why I say I hope everything goes well with the PCP, understanding that I need a referral. But looking at the bright side, I did choose her to be my PCP lol. We'll know on the 10th of August.

I'm so dang on anxious... lol

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MsBadu504    45

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I had my surgery on April 9th and I'm so happy with the results. I'm down 45 lbs and I feel great!

Pic 1: 2 weeks after surgery

Pic 2: last Sunday

You look great, congrats.

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shelley_38    10

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I had my surgery on April 9th and I'm so happy with the results. I'm down 45 lbs and I feel great!

Pic 1: 2 weeks after surgery

Pic 2: last Sunday

You look great!!!

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tmde63    53

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You look awesome, thanks for sharing!

Great encouragement!

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    • LeighaTR

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      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
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    • Doughgurl

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      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
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      1. Selina333

        Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

    • Alisa_S

      Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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