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Advice needed

My bf has been going through a lot of stress. His family is really dysfunctional. Instead of sharing with me, he's just really moody and quiet. I know the stuff he is going through is really painful, but at the same time, I am really sick of the way he shuts down.

I sent a message to a guy on another dating site. he wrote back and asked for a picture. I sent a little newsy email, and sent a picture. I have not heard back from him. I don't know whether to wait, or send him another message and if so, what to say.

Vegas Angel, you can see the picture on my fb page. It's the only picture I have of me that I can send. I am really camera shy and take lousy pictures. Even though I am a size 10-12, I still look really fat in pictures.

I really need some advice here. I would like to send a little message and ask if he'd like to meet for coffee, cause you can't tell much from a picture or an email. Is anyone good with this sort of thing? Should I wait another couple of days? I sent the picture yesterday. The email he had sent was really nice, and he didn't seem like someone who was all hung up on looks.

This has happened to me before, where I have corresponded with men, then as soon as I sent the picture, all emails just stopped.

Please give me your advice!:sad0::):001_wub:

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I get into a lot of the reality shows, but Big Brother is not one of them. I have watched it a few times and just couldn't get into it.

I get into a lot of the reality shows, but Big Brother is not one of them. I have watched it a few times and just couldn't get into it.

I'm with you on that one Susan ...

I have a limited tolerance for repetition so any reality show I'm into, I fall out of love with after about 3 seasons. Well TAR took more like 5 seasons. But it's really, really good.

I can't be bothered with reality shows. I only watch Amazing Race. Other than that I like Discovery, National Geographic, or History Channel. IMHO most of what is on the major networks is crud. I like to feed my brain if I am going to watch the tube.

Oh I can't forget A&E, First 48!

I have a limited tolerance for repetition so any reality show I'm into, I fall out of love with after about 3 seasons. Well TAR took more like 5 seasons. But it's really, really good.

I'm like you are Mac ... and I agree with you on TAR - it's really really good and it's not on as often as the others, so I actually look forward to it when it does come on.

I can't be bothered with reality shows. I only watch Amazing Race. Other than that I like Discovery, National Geographic, or History Channel. IMHO most of what is on the major networks is crud. I like to feed my brain if I am going to watch the tube.

Oh I can't forget A&E, First 48!

I LOVE watching HGTV, Discovery, Animal Planet, A&E, Intervention and First 48 ... I agree most of the stuff on the main channels isn't worth watching - although I will admit I won't miss Grey's Anatomy.

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What is TAR?

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oh that's one I have really tried to get into, and absolutely can't.

Hey I went out of town today and ran into

Suzanne at costco. Crazy. I had to drive

100 miles to go to Chase bank to take care of some issues with my dad's account so I decided to stop at Costco cause not only do we not have Chase bank here, we don't have Costco either.

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