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My mother is dead.

This is what I got from another member, as a result of some unnamed post I made. Pretty sure it violates forum rules, but I wanted everyone to see what us so called "old timers" have to put up with. Sorry for the graphic language. Anyone who wants to block me, go for it!

Bee Well

"Stop being such a mean b***h and a bully. Get a life in the real world and stop pretending this is real. Please block me since I can't seem to block you and f**k yourself. You are not better then anyone else anywhere so stop acting like you are. Your ,mother would be ashamed at how you act and treat people. Lucifer will dine on yor brains!"

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    let me say that grammy is one of the nicest people i have never met..this person as well as others is a walking/talking success story...she and others offer support/friendship/understanding to whom ev

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    I'd like to tell you to forget what that person said, but I've been cyber-stalked for almost 5 years by a sick person I met on a WLS support site and I'm not able to easily shake that kind of thing of

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Guess I know who will block me first. To everyone... I don't post to be mean or hateful, but if this isn't real life what is? I sure thought lap band surgery was real!

What happened? I'm lost. Lol

That's awful, I'm sorry you even have to deal with that.

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I don't know... obviously did not like a post a made somewhere. Thanks for the comments.

~hugs~ CHEZ.....how hateful can one be to another...that they dont even know....

You are always helpful and Im so sorry some one was cowardly to PM that to you...WOW......

Alex....if your reading this I hope you can band that person who PMd that to CHEZ !!!

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let me say that grammy is one of the nicest people i have never met..this person as well as others is a walking/talking success story...she and others offer support/friendship/understanding to whom ever wants it..

i have received pm's very similar to this. its not very nice

and completely unacceptable....if you dont like what someone says, ignore it.

keep posting gram, i read..

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WOW! Someone needs a Prozac

Sorry Chez I for one want to thank you along with all the other successful banders for educating me and making it possible for me to succeed. I owe you all a lot.

CHEZ....i did just send Alex a PM because this is so not right...~hugs~ ya girl

let me say that grammy is one of the nicest people i have never met..this person as well as others is a walking/talking success story...she and others offer support/friendship/understanding to whom ever wants it..

i have received pm's very similar to this. its not very nice

and completely unacceptable....if you dont like what someone says, ignore it.

keep posting gram, i read..

Carolinagirl, I believe Alex said this same thing the other day."If you don't like what you read, move on" it is an open forum for thoughts/ opinion no need for ppl to get nasty. Like my momma always said "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all". Golden Rule lets live by it!

BTW offering advice does not qualify as "not saying anything nice".

WHERE DID THESE FEW FORUM POLICE COME FROM?

Wow, this person sounds like a complete psycho, thank goodness you are only "meeting" this person online, jeez.

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Someone was that nasty over a posting? I would have ignored what you said if it was something I did not like. It just shows how ignorant, rude, and self absorbed this society is becoming.

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So shocking. Good thing this person doesn't know where you live. This type of anger ends in mass shooting in schools etc...

When is enough enough?

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I am sorry someone would send such a mess. We all come here to get frank, honest information from your experience. I don 't know about anyone else but this site has been my lifeline. Not everyone wants to talk about weight loss. It is great to have all of you to share this experience with.

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That is so not right. Most of us have agreed to disagree about certain things and have even posted a response that not everyone would like. But to put it like that with those kinds if words is unacceptable to say the least.

I'm sorry you had to receive that.

Chez- I love ur posts and comments!! Any advice from the so called "old timers" is welcome by 99.9 percent of the ppl on here! Please just trash it and don't let psychotic ppl get u down!!

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