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Hello. I am a 35 year old woman. I am a stay at home mom. I have a 7 and a 4 year old, (and a 42 year old).When I started my pre-op diet I weighed 234 lbs. I had my surgery on the 17th of Feb. I got my first fill on March 27, and I am struggling. I have been fluckuating between losing 21 and 24 lbs. for about a month now. I work out 5 days a week for 1-2 hours a day. I eat right, and I just don't get what is going on. I just need someone to talk to, or some advice or something. It is just really frustrating losing and gaining the same lb. or 2 over and over again. Please help. I am a very down to earth open minded person. If you would like to be my mentor/buddy, I am here. And would love to talk. Have a great day!

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Hi,

I'd be glad to be your buddy. I'm in Tijuana and having surgery tomorrow.

We can do this together.

My email address is gaynor.debra@gmail.com

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Hello Debra. It is great to hear from you. I too had my surgery in Tijuans. Dr. Ortiz was my surgeon. It went great. Good luck to you tomorrow, and I can't wait to hear from you. I think it would be great to be buddys!

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questions or support message me.

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I had my surgery 12/10. I was 256 am now 160. Got down to 144 and slowly has creeped up. Happy to be a buddy. Today I have rib pain on left side. Anyone else have that problem?

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Id love to be a buddy also...message me...im struggeling a lil through bandster hell....

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Hi, I would love to be a buddy too! i had my band on 12/21 and struggling a bit too. I don't have barely any restriction and I had two fills so far, next one isn't till 5/8. I eat right most of the time but can eat too much. I have 3 teenagers and find very little time to exercise after getting home from work and running them around to sports and such. I have lost about 33 pounds so far but the last two months only about 3-5 pounds per month. Message me if you need to talk! Good luck.

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I had my surgery 12/10. I was 256 am now 160. Got down to 144 and slowly has creeped up. Happy to be a buddy. Today I have rib pain on left side. Anyone else have that problem?

I had mine on 06-02-2010 I was up to 8 1/2 in my band. I started hurting and went back in and they took it all out I go back in on Thursday and hope they will put some more in it. I have download this app called eat slower pro on the iPhone it helps some to eat slower. . I have lost close to 40 pounds but not enough . I'm at 170 want to get to 150 any ideal???ƒ???ƒ☺

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Hi' date=' I would love to be a buddy too! i had my band on 12/21 and struggling a bit too. I don't have barely any restriction and I had two fills so far, next one isn't till 5/8. I eat right most of the time but can eat too much. I have 3 teenagers and find very little time to exercise after getting home from work and running them around to sports and such. I have lost about 33 pounds so far but the last two months only about 3-5 pounds per month. Message me if you need to talk! Good luck.[/quote']

Sounds good to have a buddie I go Monday to start over with the fill, right now I am going through trying to make a grocery list???š got to get back in the grove. I am a Zumba instructor but my back has had me down but want to get back into it. I'm from Louisiana, what about u?

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Id love to be a buddy also...message me...im struggeling a lil through bandster hell....

Come on and join in

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Hi' date='

I'd be glad to be your buddy. I'm in Tijuana and having surgery tomorrow.

We can do this together.

My email address is gaynor.debra@gmail.com[/quote']

I would love to have u as a buddie good luck tomorrow let me know how it goes. I was ready to go the next day...???„???„???„???„???„u will not be sorry

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I would love to have anyone to be a buddie it really helps to have feed back

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Hello. I am a 35 year old woman. I am a stay at home mom. I have a 7 and a 4 year old' date=' (and a 42 year old).When I started my pre-op diet I weighed 234 lbs. I had my surgery on the 17th of Feb. I got my first fill on March 27, and I am struggling. I have been fluckuating between losing 21 and 24 lbs. for about a month now. I work out 5 days a week for 1-2 hours a day. I eat right, and I just don't get what is going on. I just need someone to talk to, or some advice or something. It is just really frustrating losing and gaining the same lb. or 2 over and over again. Please help. I am a very down to earth open minded person. If you would like to be my mentor/buddy, I am here. And would love to talk. Have a great day![/quote']

We can work on this together if u want I need help to???Š???Š???Š

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Hi' date='

I'd be glad to be your buddy. I'm in Tijuana and having surgery tomorrow.

We can do this together.

My email address is gaynor.debra@gmail.com[/quote']

Hi I hope everything went good today

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