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My BMI is now in the 30's!

WrenBird

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WrenBird    11

WrenBird
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Wohoo! I went for a fill yesterday and my surgeon told me that my BMI is now 39! I have a longggg way to go, but it's the small things that keep me going!

My next goal is to get my BMI down to 35, which means I've got to lose about another 15 kilos.

This is all so exciting and it's happened in under 2 months! :)

My BMI started at 45.

What did your BMI start as, and what are you up to now?

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WrenBird    11

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Congrats Wren...way to go!

My BMI was 40 and is now 21.

Thanks!

Wow you're so skinny now :) Must feel good! I can't wait to get there.

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shadena32    0

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Yay!!!! good for your Wrenbird!!!!! how have you been feeling overall? Keep up the good work!!:thumbup:

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vlp1968    83

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That's awsome. The milstones along the way are something to celebrate! Keep up the good work!

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WrenBird    11

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Yay!!!! good for your Wrenbird!!!!! how have you been feeling overall? Keep up the good work!!:thumbup:

Thanks :-D

I feel great! My boobies are getting saggy, but it doesn't bother me...No one's really going to be looking at those besides my fiancee and he doesn't mind.

Speaking of which, my ring is getting a little loose! Woohoo! :(

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Apples2    19

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Thanks :-D

I feel great! My boobies are getting saggy, but it doesn't bother me...No one's really going to be looking at those besides my fiancee and he doesn't mind.

Speaking of which, my ring is getting a little loose! Woohoo! :rolleyes2:

Wren...on the boobies issues. Give it time once you get to goal. I'll be 55 in two weeks and after losing all the weight they looked like tube socks with tennis balls in the toes. I made sure that every waking hour I wore a good stable bra. Two years later they are sitting up nice a pretty. Never thought it would happen but I attribute it to a good underwire and 3lb weight exercises each day.

And, on the skinny thing. (Not offended, thank you). I am actually at a pretty good weight for me. I am very smalled boned and weigh about what I did 31 yrs ago today on our wedding day. After getting to goal and upping my calories, my body just got back to it always used to be. I had such a sucky metabolism during menopause and now it's freakishly the other way. I'll take it though.

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WrenBird    11

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Wren...on the boobies issues. Give it time once you get to goal. I'll be 55 in two weeks and after losing all the weight they looked like tube socks with tennis balls in the toes. I made sure that every waking hour I wore a good stable bra. Two years later they are sitting up nice a pretty. Never thought it would happen but I attribute it to a good underwire and 3lb weight exercises each day.

And, on the skinny thing. (Not offended, thank you). I am actually at a pretty good weight for me. I am very smalled boned and weigh about what I did 31 yrs ago today on our wedding day. After getting to goal and upping my calories, my body just got back to it always used to be. I had such a sucky metabolism during menopause and now it's freakishly the other way. I'll take it though.

I just use the word skinny as a 'gotten to goal weight' type of thing :rolleyes2: Someday I'll be skinny, but not 'skinny', if that makes sense.

On the boobies issue: I dunno how I'm going to feel in a year but at the moment it doesn't really bother me. I went into a changeroom after aqua aerobics about a week ago and there was an old lady in there that had nicer knockers than me...I felt really happy for her and it kind of made me giggle...I'm not sure why it doesn't bother me...Maybe because I know that no one will be looking at them besides me and my partner.

My best friend is getting a boob job next year...This is after two rounds of liposuction. I just don't get why she can't wear a padded push up bra? It's not like she's going topless or that she goes swimming. I support her regardless and think it might have something to do with her confidence and her partner finding her as attractive as when they first met...It's not much of an issue for me, but having firm tatas will be a bonus in the future if they ever do harden up a bit.

Cheers

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Apples2    19

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I am in an over 30 yr marraige and hubby thought I was cute at any weight. Sometimes I think the acceptance of ones own body is a reflection on being in a loving relationship.

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WrenBird    11

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I am in an over 30 yr marraige and hubby thought I was cute at any weight. Sometimes I think the acceptance of ones own body is a reflection on being in a loving relationship.

I completely agree :rolleyes2:

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