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How bad will I feel 8 days post opt?



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Hey Guys,

My surgery date is Oct 20.

I am in the middle of a nasty custody battle for my neice and nephew. We have raised my baby girl since she was 6m (now 5) and my baby boy since he was 2 ( now 7). Their "parents" are unfit to say the least. bio mom hasn't seen them for years and bio dad gave up his rights.Our next court date for Oct 28--eight days after my surgery.

I started to cancel my procedure, but couldn't. I am doing this for my health, so I can take care of my faimly and continue working for them and my students. I believe that I need to do this for my kids. I also feel like if I wait on this to be over it may never be (it's already has been 5 years and I don't see an end in site).

Am I nuts for thinking I can do this and attend court eight days later? Please let me know what you think. I realize everyone is different, and this is very subjective. I will say I have had major surgery before and recovered quickly.

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Thank you Jack. It helps so much. I felt like it would be ok, but was very worried about letting my kids down. Not so worried about being tired. Everytime I go to court, I am sleep deprived and that adrelaline kicks in at least while we are there-just have to crash afterwords. Thanks again I feel so much better with my decession. What do you think about going back to work 5 days later-I'm a teacher. Probably the same

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I had my surgery on a Monday in March and hit the road facilitating classes for my company that Saturday. I have not slowed down or stopped yet. I have had two C Sections, and a hernia surgeryr prior to this. For me, this was so much easier to recover from. My Dr. told me to walk, walk, walk and then walk some more. I put my little pedometer on when I left the surgery center and made sure I got as many steps in as possible. I think it is what made for a quick recovery for me. I think walking, following your Dr's instructions and taking care of yourself that first few days sets you up for success. My surgery was scheduled the week before and was put off a week. I was tempted to postpone because I didn't think I would have enough time. I am so glad I didn't wait. I am down 67 pounds and every penny of my $11,500 was worth it. Don't put it off...go for it!

Good luck! You and your kids will be in my prayers

Stagegirl:thumbup:

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Everyone is different. I was fine within a couple of days.

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I was doing yard work five days post op if that helps any :thumbup:

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It took me 10 days to really feel like myself again--but I was incrementally better each day after surgery.

My son had his tonsils out on Day Three, and I had no problem going with him to the hospital, walking the long halls, waiting in recovery, etc.

I think a day in court after 8 days is likely to be fine.

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Thank all of you so much. I so appreciate the input. Jack mentioned making time for new activities. What have you guys made time I am sure it includes exercising. And my family and I would so appreciate any prayers that are offered.

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Everybodys body is different.I got banded.September10th.I would have no problem going to court.I went back to work Friday.I have been driving and not taking pain meds for two days.I've been brislly for 30 minutes a day and am starting the eliptical tomorrow. My incision site hurts a little,but not that much.Don't stress too much!!It sounds like you have a lot on your plate.You can do it.I think maybe you are worrying too much.I:thumbup:do the same thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Good luck

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This is only my story I am 5 days out was banded on 9-21 and I just got back from a 2 mile walk. get tired a bit but could go back to work if i wanted to with no trouble and it is not a desk job. So I would have no trouble going to court and all.

Mary

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My surgery pain was gone by day 3 or 4, but the gas pain lasted longer. It was also worse than the incisions, but not everyone gets that. Get gasex or something like that BEFORE it hits, and try to prevent it. I was fine by day 6, and most people think that is a LONG time recovery. You will be fine for court. Good luck!!

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I was fine eight days post-surgery. Good luck with the battle to keep your kids. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Thank you so much. Prayers are so appreciated. Oct 28 is the next court hearing.

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