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I'm also on day 3! I'm doing a liquid/low cal combo diet for this first week, and then it's strictly Protein shakes next week. So far its been really easy because I spend all day sipping my shakes and looking forward to my chicken breast & veggies at night. I expect next week to be much harder. What're ya'll drinkin? I've tried a few powders but so far they all seem to leave me with a gurgling upset stomach and (TMI) diarrhea. Anyone else having this problem? I'm thinking maybe it's because I've been mixing my powders with soy milk to cut calories and my body's having a weird reaction. Not a fan! I have lost 4 lbs. already though so I'm definitely a fan of that

That's an awesome policy! Check with your local health food stores too... there's one here that will take the stuff back if you don't like it. I got one that's not too bad, but I'll have to see about trying the stuff BlaqBeary posted-- I love strawberry milkshakes!

I so totally agree with this! Hey Emma, I'm also 23, and totally freaked! My surgery is 2 weeks from today and I've started my pre-op diet. It can be scary especially if you're like me and you've never had surgery before-- I'm really scared of the anesthesia. Just try to focus on the wonderful, exciting aspects of the surgery... think of all the lovely things it will enable you to do, and forget about the scary stuff! These forums definitely help too, please stick around, we need eachother

Beautiful inside and out, that'll carry you through! I've been dealing with a lot of these kinds of feelings too... I'm afraid I'll end up even more insecure, like once I'm thin I'll feel like I'm in a stranger's body. I've always been a big girl, but I know I have a nice shape and I'm scared about the extra skin and how it'll change that-- I don't want my nice voluptuous boobs and butt to suddenly turn flattened and lifeless. I guess I'll just have to wait and see. I think so much of this is about getting to know a whole new person-- she's always been inside you but she's never gotten to shine before. I guess we'll just have to keep servin' it as best we can!

A lot of the Mexican packages include a driving service and lodging, and many times you'll find yourself spending your time with other patients who have purchased the same package. I wouldn't worry too much, but of course take the same precautions you'd take traveling anywhere-- keep your money/belongings out of site and closeby, don't trust anyone you don't know, etc. You'll do fine, just be careful and use the buddy system!

I went a little crazy and had a "this is it!" free-for-all this past week (I'm 3 weeks pre-op) and went to all my favorite restaurants and let myself have all my favorite foods that I know I won't have post-op. I'm kindof giving myself a break about it since pre-op diet/weightloss starts on Monday for me. The finality of this whole thing is really setting in-- that my life is going to change forever, so I threw the old me a little going away party, you might say. I think you're definitely normal! me, maybe not so much hahaha

Well, I've changed dates AND doctors all within the past week! Luckily I'm still a september sleever though. Excited!

I've been thinking about this... I sleep on my stomach so I know I'll have to adjust to something else, just not sure how that'll go. I hear sleeping isn't all that easy for the first couple nights anyway. I say bring it and see! Meanwhile I'll be practicing sleeping on my back.

I'll be heading to Mexico for surgery on Sept 16th with Dr. Almanza. Price was certainly a factor when deciding to have it done across the border, but having worked with insurance companies before, I know how difficult it can be to get what you want and when you want it, and I've actually felt much more comfortable being able to dictate and control things on my own rather than relying on others. I can't STAND waiting on other people to catch up with me when it comes to making decisions. A huge battery of tests isn't all that necessary in my opinion. My boyfriend had gastric bypass in the US and had the same tests I'll be having-- basic bloodwork, vitals, etc. The only thing he had that I won't have is a psych eval-- and he says that was completely pointless anyway. If you're confident in your doctor's abilities like you said, I wouldn't worry about it too much :svengo:

THIS is a doozy! I told my mom about the surgery itself and she was supportive, but I couldn't even get out "Mex..." before she burst into tears and begged me not to "die on a table in another country." It's really hard because I have done so much research and have had to work really hard on feeling comfortable and safe, and then people make comments like that and blow it all. I know I'm taking a risk by going to Mexico, but I also know that the pros significantly outweigh the cons for me, and that I feel confident in my ability to choose a good doctor. But she's a nurse from the old school days and has some nightmarish vision of me dying alone in some dirty dinky room. It's just really hard to hear that and say "I'm doing it anyway" without her thinking I don't care.

Congrats! I'm scheduled with his partner, Dr. Almanza on Sept. 16th, just as my semester is starting. I'm too impatient to wait haha. I'll let you know!

Hey guys! Anyone have a list of all the Vitamins necessary/recommended? I'd like to stock up online since it'll be cheaper, so if I could get everything at once that'd be great. Thanks in advance!!

Just scheduled for September 2nd. So excited! and nervous!

I'm looking at mid September in Mexico with Dr. Almanza. Very excited!

Some great responses here, thanks everyone! I can definitely relate to GeorgieGirl... I think what I'm most afraid of is being judged by people. I think a lot of people are misinformed and think surgery is "the easy way out," rather than just diet and exercise. I have a few friends who are VERY fitness-oriented and though they've never been rude to me about my weight in the past, I can't imagine they'd approve either. The Mexico part is where I'm really struggling when it comes to my family. My mom is a former nurse and did a lot of medical missions trips to Mexico when I was growing up. I can't decide if this will make her react more negatively or more positively to the idea. I know I'm going to have to just come out and tell her, I'm just afraid of the potential backlash. I guess I'll just have to take comfort in the fact that I have done the research and I know I'm making a good choice, and hope others come around in the end.

Curious about how open you guys are about having had surgery. Do you just tell anyone? Close friends/family only? My boyfriend had bypass surgery 2 years ago and every once in awhile he'll run into someone who is shocked and asks him how he lost all the weight-- he has no problem telling them it was surgery, even people he doesn't know well at all. It's not that I think this is weird, I just don't know how comfortable I'll be answering that question with acquaintances. How do you guys usually go about it? What about telling others you're about to have surgery? Have you told coworkers etc. what kind of surgery it is when they ask? My mom doesn't even know yet so I'm kind of struggling with the delicacy of this a bit.

this is a cool idea-- my boyfriend will love the unpureed version. I'm a little scared of this stage... is it a general rule of thumb that you can puree just about anything? more ideas would be excellent!

Hell yeah to the sex! I wanna be able to get in some interesting positions :thumbup: ride horses again! being able to "go for a run." a real run. go to a theme park without worrying about fitting in the seats go dancing, swimming, biking without feeling self conscious never ever again be called a "bbw" as far as clothing goes... all I know is, I'm going to have to get a LOT pickier! I'm a total fatshionista as it is so I'll buy anything that looks cute right now, but there are so many more options for straight sizes so I'm going to have to reign that in for sure. After a little fun of course.

this is definitely me. I have guilt about the money, the potential risks. I would hate for my friends and family to think I'm selfish, or that I didn't value my life. I think these are the kinds of things I'll be leaving in a note, rather than an actual will.

That's really great. Would you mind posting a few of these videos? My boyfriend keeps making comments like "once you see how great you look you'll realize I'm not good enough for you" and I think we could both use some reassurance.

Are you crafty at all? I can't imagine they'd be difficult to make-- just some fabric, snaps at the shoulders, ties at the back? the above idea is a good one too. If you wanna get fancy I'd check out Etsy-- they have SUCH a cute selection. I totally love =tags&%3Bincludes[1]=title"]this one, can't bring myself to spend the money on it though.

congrats red! you're going great! from what I've seen a lot of it depends on your BMI -- the higher it is, the longer the pre-op diet. low BMI patients can get away with just a few days, but if you're over 40 it's more like a week.

sweet! congrats!

looks good! the only thing that still scares me is the anesthesia, that I won't be able to relax enough or somehow won't stay under. But that's largely just because I've never had surgery of any kind before. Damn these nerves! The drain removal looked a little ungainly to me too. Do they numb that area or do you feel a big tube sliding outta your abdomen? yech.

I know this is no help at all, but DUDE, THAT SUCKS. hahaha. sometimes I think we just need somebody kicking the wall with us. :frown1: I'm sure you'll be fine though! I know for me frustration is the best of my (few) workout motivations. Harness it, girl!