MaineJackie

Congratulations!!!

Due to the potential implication of a port infection....you really need to make sure your doc stays right on top of this. It is sometimes hard to know the difference between an infection and the different things that can go on when an incision heals. There may be a retained stitch, or you may be reacting to the internal stitches, or you could be developing a seroma.....the key is not to mess around. I was lucky...I healed without an issue. But I have had other surgeries that have led to infection and intraabdominal abscesses......so I think it is important that you be very careful.

The more fluids you get in, the better you will feel! Being a bit dehydrated zaps your energy. Sip sip sip all day long....sugar free popsicles are good, so is SF Jello. chicken broth.....all those count as fluids. Good luck

I don't disagree....this is a great forum for connecting with others who are going through, or have faced, the same challenges. However, I do not think it is the place to ask questions relating to something that is very prescriptive from your physician. The specifics of the pre/post op diet vary greatly from physician to physician. I think asking others in this forum about how they managed, or suggestions they have, related to what you are going through are appropriate....but asking to fill in the blanks about a very specific guideline from your physician is not appropriate for a public, internet forum.

No complications here. No issues......and working my band every day for all it is worth......

It is very simple. CALL your doctor.......and ask them...... Sorry. There are just so many posts here where people are posting, asking anonymous people over the internet, questions that should be directed to their doctor's office. Jackie who is admittedly very tired and cranky

I don't have a thyroid and take synthroid. I have no issues losing weight (the issue is usually keeping it off). I think the reasons why someone is hypothyroid may impact how they lose weight. If someone has autoimmune thyroid disease etc......I think it may be more challenging. I do fine because my TSH is consistent on my dose of synthroid.

I don't drink often, but I do go out occasionally. I usually go for a drink that doesn't have a lot of sweet stuff in it....I have aquired a taste for martini's. I only have one.....and while they may be empty calories, they are not every day (or even every week or every month) so I don't lose sleep over it. I would avoid carbonation and drinks that are packed with extra stuff that adds the calories.

I am not a smoker but part of the process in my surgeon's office inlcuded the blood test for nicotine. And if it was positive---that was the end of the road. The surgeons get copies of your records...they will see if your PCP reported that you were a smoker or not. Also...as a nurse, I need to tell you that the recovery for a smoker can be complicated. In addition to the affect on your respiratory status and the risks with anesthesia, post operatively you are at risk for respiratory complications and impaired wound healing. Not matter what...do not lie to a doctor.....they are using what you tell them to guide how they care for you and the need accurate and truthful information.

Well, I started this journey wearing a size 26/28. Last night, I went closet shopping and pulled out some pants from the WAY back.....well, the 20s are loose and the 18's FIT !!!! :Banane45: Plus.....I went shopping the close-out rack tonight and the 14/16 tops fit! Wow this feels good...... :success1:

I just make sure I don't have a drink available. It was difficult to get used to it. I do sometimes take a very small mouthful to wash out my mouth after eating....but this is literally just a sip......and not every meal. (like when I make chili, I just need to get the taste out of my mouth). And usually, I am watching the clock....and an hour after eating, I am having something to drink. I admit, when I go out to dinner, I have a "drink" sometimes with my meal. But I sip it...and I find I can't drink much anymore. I have left more in the glass in the last few months than I have ever left behind!

I am still new at all this and learning.....but I haven't had bread since pre-op. This has a lot to do with the effects on overall weight loss mixed with some fear of getting stuck. I have eaten Pasta...although a small amount. I can still eat chicken and pork tenderloin but I am finding that I need to really have it moist--I haven't gotten stuck yet, but it definitely feels different if it isn't moist. My standby is eggs. It is my quick fix when I don't know what else to make. I haven't tried rice. I am avoiding most carbs due to the effects on weight loss.

Thanks everyone. As always, I appreciate your words of wisdom!

HI......I am looking for some words of wisdom..... My best friend is also obese. She cannot have WLS for a variety of reasons. She is also more concerned about appearances and fashion etc than I am. Well.....as I am losing weight, she has been gaining weight. And while she is supportive....she doesn't go out of her way to offer me any encouragement or accolades. I feel selfish for feeling this way. I know she is unhappy with her ballooning weight......but I guess I would love for my BFF to acknowlegde how well I am doing.....

HI...congrats on your progress so far! You are doing great! You are in the phase, often referred to as "Bandster Hell". Once you start getting fills you will start to see the scale move again. This phase will pass.....my surgeon told me that was when I needed to focus most on developing new eating habits (like chewing chewing chewing....small bites etc). So far, my surgeon has been right on track! Keep up the great work. Jackie

Happy New Year everyone! I enjoyed the last version of this thread---great idea to start it again. Life here is good! My most recent fill (now at 4.5cc) this week is working well. I am losing weight again....and feeling satisfied for 3-5 hours after eating. Keeping my fingers crossed that this lasts for a while. I already have my next fill scheduled in 3 weeks, just in case......small adjustments from here on out. Enjoy the holiday everyone! Jackie

My GB was a piece of cake....this surgery was different......the port site was painful......but it wasn't horrible.

I must be too transparent. I tell everyone the real reason why....nothing to be ashamed of........and I believe healthcare providers should have the truth and chiropractors technically are healthcare providers. sorry not much help!

I had a bad headache post op. In fact, I ended up admitted overnight because of it.

I can't wait to be able to buy some classy business attire. I hate that they think all fat, tall women like bright or floral prints. I want a classic cut suit. With a nice plain silk blouse. All the plus sized blouses are embellished with something hokey. I am down from a 26/28 to a (loose) 22 right now. I have issues with my belly......I had emergency abdominal surgery in May...complicated by 3 abdominal abscesses, requiring drains etc......so my belly is mis-shapen and lopsided. I don't anticipate it shrinking much and already know I will need a panniculectomy. But I suppose that is what they make Spanx for !!!!! I need to have surgery on my foot....I have been putting it off because I couldn't imagine hauling this fat ass around on crutches for 30 days. I can't wait to have the surgery because I can then buy nice shoes.....surgery is in the spring......sexy shoes by mid summer.

I hope I never have issues with eggs! They are a staple in my diet! I don't eat scrambled eggs because I have heard they can get stuck. I eat fried or hard boilded eggs. Jackie

Hi, I don't "force" myself to eat, but I do try and eat something every 4 or 5 hours. I find if I don't, then I get ravenously hungry and I am more likely to overeat. I may have a serving of almonds, or a kashi bar or something......just to keep from over doing it when I finally do get hungry. Jackie

I had my 3rd fill yesterday.....only 0.5 cc.......but I really think I have restriction! The portion size that I can eat is about half of what it was before this fill. I know that there is some swelling from the fill....but.......maybe this is it???? It is a noticable difference. This past weekend, I felt like I could eat anything.....today, not so much. LOL I have an appointment in a month for another fill. My surgeon believes in small, frequent fills for the first 6 months. Anyway....just wanted to share my good news. Jackie

ask them to send you a copy of the policy on weight loss surgery, so you can read it yourself. also find out the greivance process for challenging this.

Okay, now I know people who are in relationships during the weight loss surgery journey have their issues....good and bad .....to deal with. As a single woman, who is 45 years old (when did that happen?? Last I looked I was only 22!!!) and has not been in a relationship for almost 18 years.....I am actually thinking about dating again. But my self esteem is in the toilet from all these years of being morbidly obese. What guy would want to date me? I am still very overweight and have at least 60 to 75 lbs to lose. Naked I will look like a sharpei dog with all the excess skin.:myscared: Have any of you found that someone special after this journey?????