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It is very hard for me, when I can take him he goes with me. When I go away for work it is hard. When he sees me packing a suitcase he will go stand by the door, and beg to go with me. It is had on the family! When I went to LA in November for 4 days he was either at the door or at the window waiting for me. My DH and kids said he cried constantly. That is why I love my little man...

Agree! They will never know until they walk a mile in our shoes!

OK I have to post my baby too! This is one and my favorite of my pets, my son, Bull Dozer the English Bull dog. He loves me more than anyone in my life and completely unconditionally! This pic is what he does everytime I leave! He loves me so...

Mzangel-- I am glad you are seeking more opinions! The best choice is always the informed choice! I will pray for you and the little one as well. I belive things will work out for the best for both of you. Just try to relax as much as you can in this hard time! You and the baby need it! Go get a pedicure or something and take some me time. It may help clear your head as well! Good luck!

Bman--I am glad it is not band related. Since you don't need those pain meds start -passing them out and we can have a parfty! lol...just kidding. Maud--thanks for the info. It is a bit expensive but if it works I am sure well worth it! Let me know if you get one. I am miserable here. I am up for school this morning, and work. 5 am...ugh... I have to teach tonight until 10 pm for work and then get up to work again at 3 am for a 5 am meeting. Ugh.... this is so not the time to be sick. I have no time for this!

Ok girls, what is this bodybugg??? lol...what am I missing out on here?

BubbleButt please please tell me you are not serious! I would kill that dog....even though I love animals....omg...I am sooo sorry!

YEAY Eddie! SO proud of you! Keep it up sweetie! :clap2: :clap2: :clap2:

See I am glad that I am not such a freak. I religiously lock my doors when pumping gas, and never walk with my purse anywhere but on my shoulder, with the strap tucke under my arm. But for the most part it is because I have a purrse fetish and when you pay alot of money for a purse you never want it anywhere but with you! lol.....OCD paying off for me!

Lol..it is very rude to be spying on me! lol....I only drive a few feet with the brake on though in my defense! lol....

Wow! Sounds like you are stuck between a rock and a hard place! I would get a second opinion really! I understand that the baby might not be doing well because you aren't eating, but surgery while pregnant sems VERY VERY scary! I would seek a second opinion. How does your OBGYN feel about it??

I love them, but I think some of them taste awful. Like cardboard really! The Chips a Hoy is one of the nasty ones. I love to keep them in my book bag for school, especially when I am in a study group. When they chow down on pizza I munch on those!

I personally feel it is crap, but I am no Dr...lol...I agree though I think RenY paitents would NEVER loose if this was true!

I am with TOM on this one. Being bi-polar doesn't fit for me either. Poodles, I would like to give you some advice if I may. I too struggled with infertility. My DH & I spent thousands of dollars getting pregnant with my first and it nearly broke us financially and mentally. We were on our last round of IVF and searching for surrogates. You need to look at the big picture. I honestly believe that a surrogate mother should be someone seperated from your life, or you run the risk of the truth getting out as Carlene said. Also, I can tell you that your sister may not be strong enough to really let it be your child. It will always be hers biologically. That is why I believe a surrogate unless you plan to tell all should always be someone removed from your life. When it comes down to it Poodles, she is a mom and as a mom to your child what are the real chances she can step away and let you raise the baby? I struggled with these questions for many years. And there is hope, I had our second with no help--and a hell of alot of surprised Dr's! Think long term, not the here and now! Good luck!

VA--well that is something for me to look forward to as well then! lol..my tummy feels awful and I sitting in class...yuck.. Nat--I agree I am all messed up too! class starts in 5 minutes and out of 300 people there are less than 10 here! lol..so it isn't just us either!

Ok all my sweeties...who gave me their germs??? Ugh..lol...not feeling so peachy this morning and I have to go back to school! My weekend wore me out as well Steph. Gonna--glad to hear it is working for you! To my ladies--big hugs (no germs included) Talk more later!

Va--have you tried Ematrol? Have someone go get it for you at a pharmacy. It is a liquid for vomitting. I am not sure how many times you have to puke before you damage something, but it is an excellent question! Good luck hun! BK--Cook in the slow cooker! :girl_hug: I love to make stuff in it. I have a book if all easy recipes for the slow cooker, you just throw stuff in it, and viola! :girl_hug: But here are some other ideas for you: Salmon (not for me but very easy to make for fanily) Chicken pot pie HERE IS MY EASY RECIPE... 1 whole cooked chicken (pre cooked & bought at store) 1 bag frozen soup veggie 2 jars of chicken gravy 1 package of pie crust Put the pie crust in the pan, cut up the chicken, throw it in, throw in veggie top with gravy, throw top crust on and cut top. Cook about 1 hour or less (brown on top) and you are done! :girl_hug: Very yummy!

They did a ton of stuff for us like upgraded our room, free money to spend for drinks, ect. We didn't want another cruise because then we would have paid to get down to Florida again.

Maurd--don't worry it will happen sooner than you think, trust me! Then you will be like me. I look at the 16 now and still think this will not fit me. still have fat Brandy mentality. But it will and you will love it! :girl_hug: Congrats on holding back! :girl_hug: Nat--you go girl! The little man will have a blast in it! I had one with my girls! :girl_hug: BV--I am glad you are no longer pbing! :girl_hug: Step in the right direction!

Ok ya'all I am sure my wedding horror story has got to take the top of the list! First of all we planned our wedding for the 17 th of September, before my DH went into the military. So my MIL decided that she HAD TO GET MARRIED BEFORE we did, and planned hers for a few weeks before ours. Just to steal my thunder. Nice eh? Well, we were just 17 & 18, so we had no money. My parents would not pay for anything but the cater. So as you can imagine I had to do what I could to make do. My church which I had been a member of my entire life refused to marry us because of my age. So we choose to get married on the spot we met, at a local camp ground. My parents made a STRICT rule that we could only have 100 people, and my Dh has a bigger family. BUT because my mom was paying for the cater, she took 75. I was NOT allowed to have any friends other than the 2 in the wedding party. My mom had people she needed to have there. (b*tch) We invited as many as we could on my husbands side, but we had to leave MANY off. We didn't have room for his cousin who he was very close to. When the day comes my father in laws family decided that since we were too young, and it wouldn't last more than a year that they would not come. That was almost everyone we had invited on his side. Very nice hu??? Well the ceremony didn't go that well. We coulnd't find my husband right before the ceremony, he had disappeared. So his best man came to ask me if I had any idea where he would go. He was found talking to some girl at the pool. :girl_hug: RIGHT after we kissed my mom stood up and yelled "She's your problem now David. You take care of the b*tch" Hence the reason my wedding video taken by my mom's friend has never been seen! Things did not get better, we went downstairs to eat. The cater served green roast beef (no joke) and my white wedding cake has turned brown from too much butter in the frosting. After everyone was done eating dear mother made me open all presents in front of everyone. Yeah fun. And after she got furious with me because I would not clean up in my wedding dress! We escaped to a local bar where I got trashed. (Thank god) but then got hit on. This drunk ass man grabbed my ass. His excuse was was that he didn't know I was married. But I was in a princess wedding dress. (that was my big splurge I wored 3 jobs for 4 months to get it)! He did grab me more than once and tried to kiss me! My hubby and my father in laws and some of the rest of the men took him outside to beat his ass. The cops were called of course, and we were able to keep my hubby out of jail but not my uncle and father in law! If that wasn't enough my mother in law ending up going home with us and wouldn't leave until 6 am... :girl_hug: All in all the worst day in my life...lol... My husband promised that night we would get remarried on our 10th anniversary. We were schedualed to do that 3 years ago on a Disney cruise but someone double booked the venue and we got bumped...lol...

Well Green, my dear cousin who did spend all of this money is a freak, everything is a ridiculas fight with her. I can not see how her hubby puts up with her, I see no magic in her eyes, only fire!

Thanks all of you for your support right now! I need it. It isn't a cheating thing that is going on, so maybe that will make it better right? We have been together since we were in h.s. 14 1/2 years ago. Sometimes I wonder if we are too different now. But I can't imagine life without him. The big D word hasn't been said in a few days. So maybe there is hope. And Steph--It didn't offend me at all. I appreciate it! Otherwise I am not loosing weight BUT I am in a size 16/18 now! YEAH! I started at a size 30!!! I am still amazed that I am getting so small. When I bought the new jeans size 18 I thought these are for a few months from now. They are so big I am having to wear a belt! :mad: So it is good to know not everything sucks for me right now. AND on a personal note, if I end up in jail for killing a girl scout, ya'all I am sorry and I love you all! I can not take one more of those freaking things in my face before I hurt someone. And I would NEVER EVER want to hurt an innocent girl scout. BUT please keep those things away I can not say no!

I agree that they do not have the right to behave this way, but they do. I have consulted with many many many. My dear cousin is/was one of them. Everything was driven to perfection, and she spent over $120,000 on the whole affair. She is a nurse, and he is not much more. SO I am guessing even after they divorce they will be paying off the wedding still!!!

Exactly....

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