MelodyJ

The answer would be each person is individual....we have to keep going until we are able to eat only 1/2 a cup w/o problems and not get hungry for 4-5 hrs and lose weight! At least that's what I have been told! GOd Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

I had no recliner or problems after surgery....you just roll to your side and push up w/ elbows and it's reasonable usually!!! Praying you don't have trouble!!! I do have a wonderful husband that would help me out of our mushy couch if I needed it though!! God Bless, MElody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

Oh Yoda....that's terrible!!! PRAYING for better success next week....if you try it!!!! :grouphug: God Bless, MElody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

Saul-- You sound like an honest guy that is blunt! I like that men just state the facts and don't go for flattery always. We, women, like the gushy stuff!! Romance your wife....make her feel beautiful again!! You committed to her 22 years ago and I'm impressed that you are together in this day and age!! Don't take the easy out and let your eyes wonder....reassure her what she means too you!!!!! She is probably feeling a little insecure w/ your new found confidence....let her know what she means to you!!! FIGHT for your marriage...these young ones may look good....but not many will "stick"...you won't have the same kind of committment you have had thus far!!!! Consider counselling if necessary.....talk to her....she can't read your mind and you can't read hers!!! I will be praying for you and she and I pray you choose each other!!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

Saul-- You

I AGREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BC/BS are poops!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They wouldn't cover me either....but like you felt I was worth it and so did my husband!!! We just wrote the check and I am SO HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs :confused:

Sonriose-- Don't know when you posted this....but I did the same thing....I had to push myself to drink!!! Call your doc and get something for the nausea....they do NOT want you to throw up as you can move your band!! The pain meds could be causing this as Sherri said earlier! You will be fine as long as you don't dehydrate....even a teaspoon every 5 minutes is similar to an IV.....call and get something to slow down the nausea. God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

Sherri-- It's funny how one little thought buries itself in and then we go plan our funerals!!! I have done the same in the past!!!! I am medical so I think the worst and must fight that!!!!! Satan is so smooth and insidious.....like cancer...just a little seed of doubt and he wins!!!!! Keep loving and praising Jesus and thanking HIM that HE is in control and loves you more than anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

Fat Crusader-- Congrats on your first fill....hoping it does the job for you!! I had my first fill in early May.....he wanted me back in June but didn't need it....so now scheduled for July 5th....thinking it would boost me again....I am able to eat 1cup now w/o a problem!!! UGH!!! Didn't lose last week....but didn't gain PRAISE GOD!!!! I used to would have gained!!! NOw I am HAPPY w/ not gaining at least!!!! But ready to lose some more!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

Productive burp..... God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs :eek:

The better question is what DIDN'T I eat?!!?!?! Terrible....think I gained 10lbs before the surgery....but lost it plus more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless, MElody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs :eek:

Nan73 --it makes sense too me.....boy the band has made itself known to me TOO many times!!!! Kristin---I pray you make it by your wedding day....what a beautiful wedding gift!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

PRAISE GOD....rejoicing with you!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless, MElody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

Wow....what a GREAT question....what a tough question!!!! So many of you have touched my heart in your honesty in where you are!!!! I have been overweight since childhood....well, even since birth!! I have always felt ugly because of my fat! I have defined my life by my weight and limited myself.....I protected myself as well. If I wasn't "pretty" in my eyes....then no one would hurt me!! Well....someone made it past my protection and he married me and loved me anyway 2 ys ago!!! But then he held me as I cried myself to sleep one night at hating my weight and where I was.....so when I brought up the surgery which I had been watching for a couple years....he listened. My dad had open heart at 48ys old....my family has a HUGE history of diabetes....I just didn't want to go there!!! I am a health care provider and telling others to lose weight while sitting there overweight just didn't make sense....was INSANE!! The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results!! Diets were insane....I could lose the weight for the most part....but never kept the weight off!! PRAISING GOD for a tool that will help me keep the weight off this time as I lose it!!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

Malice X Girl-- I am a Christian and have fasted w/ Water only for 10days at a time.... it's VERY tough....but I draw closer to the Lord and He strengthens me....but without Him I can't make it a few hours!!! So yes I think you can go w/ less calories than 1000.....but it sure makes you tired and you can feel weak!!! Just my opinion!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs :cool:

I lost about 40 pounds I believe?? Now since my first and only fill 5wks ago I've lost another 12 pounds....was hoping for 20lbs....but don't think I"m going to drop 8lbs by then?!?!? My initial goal was 50lbs in 3mos.... I did reach that as of 2 days ago!! YAY!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs :cool:

Vickie-- I was told clear liquids for 2 full days then full liquids for 2 days then he said mushies and advance....it was tough! I decided to "cheat" w/ some chunks from a Soup.....I was MISERABLE!!!!!!!! My doc has been banded himself and has quite a bit of experience so I went w/ his advice. BUt as we've all noticed there is no rules set in stone...it's all where your provider is at and what they believe!!! :cool: God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

Overfills cause complications from all I've read....and if your losing I think your doing GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs :cool:

My doc had me do Clear liquids for 48hrs post fill....but you really should ask yours!! Congrats on the weight loss!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs :confused:

You may have to take it in liquid form....nothing bigger than a pencil eraser.....if your taking the medrol dose pack those are small enough....but the prednisone is probably too big! But you'll figure that out later I'm sure!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs :confused:

Leener-- I have been behind on the times....didn't realize you were going thru so much!! Am praying now!!!!!!!!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs :confused:

Wheetsin....have always been impressed w/ how well you are doing and your wisdom!!! Thanks for sharing!!!! What does it take to be "super-sized"....I think I was there.....My memory is sketchy for things that don't appeal to me....so think my BMI was 46. I started at 335lbs at 5'10". I am down to 283lbs now!!! So have hit "twoterville" as I've seen it called!! Wheetsin....would love to catch up with you!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lb:)

I'm thinking it went north of Telly and I both....but gray and rainy here!!!! Oh here is Orange City (outside Orlando) in case you don't know! GOd bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -52lbs

FLORIDA ----WHERE ARE YOU?!???!?! Hoping everyone is doing GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -50lbs

PB once when I was about 1 mo out....but if I'm understanding this correctly....I have gotten stuck much more unfortunately!! You would think I would catch on!!!!!!!!!!!!! I still eat too quickly.....I still take too big of bites....but I am learning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless, Melody Banded 3/20/06 -50lbs