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Everything posted by LadyH
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Hey There! Any December 2021 Surgery Friends?
That scenario worries me as does the fact that bari vitamins have also been up and down $12 per bottle in the last few weeks. I can see those going to $100 or more.
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how many calories at 6 months post op
So many different takes on caloric needs after this surgery. Makes me nervous. So, if there’s an apocalyptic event and none of us can eat when the food is available, do we just starve? Same if you get cancer or some other wasting disease? Age alone can do that to a person. What if the supply chain completely breaks down and there are no bari vitamins, or, they’re $300 per bottle? Do we just die? These things keep me up at night.
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Hey There! Any December 2021 Surgery Friends?
I had to send a message to the “team” to get the diet instructions we supposedly “…already received at the pre-op class” but the class isn’t scheduled until Dec. 10, which is also just 5 days before my surgery. You’d think they might want to share that BEFORE the patient is required to start the 14 day diet. So, I get my Zoom pre-op class, diet instructions, virtual book, and surgery instructions just 5 days before surgery. I’m guessing chances are slim the Zoom class format will maintain patient confidentiality so they don’t broadcast our names and faces to everybody in the program and across the web.
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This surgery is bullshit...
There are also huge differences between people depending on build, age, medical conditions, medications, exercise capacity, peevious dieting/yo-yo dieting, etc., etc., etc., hang in there, Sleeversk
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Hey There! Any December 2021 Surgery Friends?
Omg you people that are losing so much weight on your liquid diet-I’m jealous! I figure I’ll be lucky to lose 6-8. Good on you, and best of luck with your surgery:)
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Hey There! Any December 2021 Surgery Friends?
14 is so much in a week! I can see why they’re worried. I got on the scale this morning and it’s exactly the same. I wonder if I’m supposed to be doing the bariatric vitamins? I can’t even keep down the regular ones. 20 days is a lot, but you are strong. I’m jealous of all you that actually get to go in to appointments and see your bari people. I haven’t seen a single one in person yet.
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Day 1 Liquid Diet Pre-Op
I’m going to get some 1% cottage cheese so I can take my vitamins/supplements/meds. I get nauseous taking them with fluids only. I figure a couple tablespoons a day of cottage cheese will have to be ok. if I get super depressed, I will definitely add in some small carb bits. Fingers crossed.
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Percent of Weight Loss Predicted
Way to go!
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Percent of Weight Loss Predicted
325 is your weight on the day of surgery?
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Percent of Weight Loss Predicted
Thanks for the info. Would you mind sharing how much of your total weight lost has been post-surgery?
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Hey There! Any December 2021 Surgery Friends?
I'm getting gastric sleeve, my BMI is 38, and I have a 2 weeks liquid diet. You're right about every doc doing things differently! Thanks for all the info.
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Percent of Weight Loss Predicted
Can anyone comment on whether the percentage of excess weight expected to be lost with gastric sleeve is actually post-surgery vs all the pre-surgery weight loss from expected on your own weight loss and the pre-op diet? I'm expecting the ~60% excess weight loss predicted to be additional Post-surgery weight loss on top of what I've lost so far since gastric sleeve reports as a surgical intervention. The "60% excess weight loss" shouldn't count what I've lost on my own with a restrictive diet and exercise? If not, having the surgery to lose just 50# or less seems maybe not a great choice? Thoughts? Or, can anyone share their own stats showing the 60% average loss counting only post-surgical weight loss?
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Day 1 Liquid Diet Pre-Op
Today is day 1 for my liquid diet: protein shakes and clear fluids only (Plus sugar free popsicles, 0 calorie flavored waters, clear broths, sugar free jello) I have ~80-100 lbs to lose. Yesterday I cleaned out my fridge and freezer, and stocked it with just the shakes/foods/drinks I can have. It's nice to have a clean fridge, and 0 wrong choices available. Mentally, it will be much tougher. I've written down 3 motivator/values in my planner so daily I will be able to refocus and remind myself why I'm doing this and what the outcome can be. Carbs are a precursor to the production of serotonin in the brain, and I know for myself that low carb diets will make me depressed. I'm worried about that. @huskymama had reported that she's already lost 10# in a week on this diet, and of course, that it's really difficult. But 10# is a lot, and that gives me hope. So thanks, huskymama! PS-does anyone know what percentage the liver shrinks on the preop diet?
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Hey There! Any December 2021 Surgery Friends?
First, I am so happy you've already lost 10#. Way to stick to that freaking miserable diet!! Second, I started my liquid diet today. After 3 hours, it's ok so far--hah! But I know I'll be facing what you're facing very soon. I have written down at the top of each day in my planner to think on 1. Freedom (from food/cooking/cleanup/obsessing/trying to make choices/decisions related to food) 2. Relief (from feeling too full, bloated, less than clear-headed, guilty, due to too much food/food choices.) 3. Loveliness (from how the diet will help to heal/remodel/clear and clean out my system and body.) I don't know if that helps, but that's where I'm trying to start. Thanks for posting--it's really great to see things working and a role model for being tough throughout the diet.
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Start Pre-Op Diet Early?
When is your surgery?
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Start Pre-Op Diet Early?
Thanks! Keep me posted on how you're doing. I hope all is well with you!
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Start Pre-Op Diet Early?
I took your advice to savor this last week, and today was my farewell to food. And now I'm excited to start the all-liquid tomorrow. Your advice really helped--thanks!
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How Long is Fatigue & Weakness After Surgery?
Thanks for sharing. It helps so much to know it only lasted about 5 weeks! At least it sounds like there's an end to it.
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Hey There! Any December 2021 Surgery Friends?
You owe this to yourself, and your kids will benefit unendingly!
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This surgery is bullshit...
Hey--lots of Jamie Mills on FB. Can you help me to ID which is the correct one to follow?
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This surgery is bullshit...
Good advice, and I'm going to follow Jamie just now. Thanks!
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Hey There! Any December 2021 Surgery Friends?
Mine is Dec. 15! We can think of this as a Christmas present to ourselves--if that's not too un-PC.
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Hey There! Any December 2021 Surgery Friends?
I felt just like you a month ago!!! Now, for some reason, I'm trusting my (invisible) surgeon will be apt, prepared, astute, and experienced, and will do wonders for me. I've fully realized the why's for my going forward with this despite the risks, and those why's are all very important. All the naysayers in my life and no good--maybe you have some of those people, too. I encourage you to write down your fears/worries, the ongoing never ending problems that led you to this surgical decision, and how your life can be forever altered for the better --meaning a better you, not just a thinner you! It's a major surgery, a total lifestyle change, and a banishment from food addiction. You can finally be the real you! I will be thinking about you on the 6th. That's the day I go in for my pre-surg anesthesia eval. Please keep me posted on how you're doing, and feel free to message me if you're feeling worried/scared, or just want to chat. I start my all liquid 2 week pre-op diet tomorrow. I'm actually excited!
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This surgery is bullshit...
I think if you read back through more of the thread, you'll see people accusing her of being a downer, negative, and implying that she hasn't tried hard enough, which, particularly without knowing this person, is highly judgmental. As stated above, realistic tips and strategies are always productive and positive, so yes, you are correct, and there's previous agreement on that point.
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Anyone Else Starting the Pre-Op Liquid Diet Tomorrow?
I'm looking for Liquid Diet buddies for the next two weeks--or as long as you will be on it. Anyone else start tomorrow?