Brockbabe82

I don't know about all surgeons but my doc made me lose weight till I was under 400 lbs. He refused to do the surgery until then because he said there were major risks for high bmi's.

I am happy that they approved you. As far as the hospital goes I would not bring anything valuable, jewerly, purse, etc. I would bring pj's slippers, chap stick, and that's it. You really will not need much. Good luck to you and please keep in touch.

For one of my jobs I care for an autistic 11 year old. One afternoon recently he accidently kicked me in the port site. I guess it would probably be like kicking a man in his area. lol. not fun.

accountability is one of the hardest things to deal with. Congrats on being able to identify your issues. Maybe you could try and see a nutritionist so they can help you identify your problem areas. Are you exercising? If not that could be part of the halt in your weight loss. Either way you are taking the right step in knowing that you do have a problem , whatever it may be. Wishing you health and happiness.

Sorry to hear you are having such a difficult time. Sleep apnea is one of those issues that aid in being approved for surgery, so that may help speed the process up. I am wishing you health and happiness , and hope to hear that you have your surgery very soon.

Hi, It is great to see another one of us in our 20's get control over our life and better ourselves. Congrats, this was the best thing I ever did for myself, difficult, yes, but well worth it. Wishing you health and happiness and don't hesitate if you have any questions. Good luck hun.

I am not really sure of what kind of advice to give you here except that you definitely need to let your doctor know today what is going on. He may be able to help you fix this problem. Being sick like that for months and months is not good and you want to make sure that there is not more going on then whats on the surface. Good luck to you hun, sending good vibes your way for a quick fix.:biggrin:

I originally planned on taking 6 days off of work from 2 demandingly physical jobs. I intended on going back to school 4 days after surgery and that never happened either. I ended up taking 2 weeks of of work and a week from school. I started to feel a little like myself by day 10. If I hadn't had someone there with me I would have been in tough shape. But do remember that everyone is different and recovery is very different in every single person. I do wish you luck and congrats on starting a happier and healthier future.

I am really not sure that a fall could mover your band, but I do think that you need to get checked. Call your surgeon and get in asap. I know I have had issues where if I hold something really heavy or lift things I get a pulling sensation where my port is. My surgeon said not to worry that it is just scar tissue. As far as your pain maybe you pulled some scar tissue. As far as the restriction you should definitely get seen. Good luck and I hope you feel better and get your answers.

Hello Alisa, Congrats on the start of a happier and healthier future. We are here for support so keep us updated.:biggrin:

Becky, Number 1 don't be ashamed to go to the doctor. They are doctor's they see this kind of thing everyday. You sound like you need a fill but you do need to try and incorporate some exercise into your week. The band is a tool, a tool that you must work with as well. Exercise has to be a piece of this tool, and most would agree with me on that. Congrats on being an advocate for your health and identifying that you have a problem but don't let embarrasment hinder you from getting the things you need. Good luck and remember we are all here for support.

I'm sorry sweetie you are having such trouble with the people who should be the most supportive. Put aside anyone else's feelings because this is about you, no one else. You are doing this so that you can have a better life, a healthier life. Do what you have to do regardless of anyone's feelings. wls is not a cop out it is hard and not just anyone can do it. The only person who can advocate for your health is you so don't worry about the rest. If your mother or anyone in your life doesn't support you then it is their loss, not yours. Tell them it's your body, your decision , and there are a hell of a lot more risks for staying obese. So girl do your thing, do this FOR YOU! Congrats on taking the next step to start a happier and healthier future and remember we are all here for support.

Be excited!!!! congrats on the start of your new life.:thumbdown:

I had a difficult time urinating after surgery as well. I tried and nothing worked. I stayed over night and finally at 3 o'clock in the morning the nurse came in and said that I needed to try or they were going to make me use a cath. So finally 20 hours after surgery I was able to go. The whole week after it was hard to because my stomach muscles hurt so bad sitting on the toliet.

I wondered the same thing about cereal with milk. I mean I have not had that yet but isn't that defeating the purpose of the eating and drinking thing?

I think the most important part of this journey is taking responsibility and knowing what you need to work on. It seems as though you know exactly what your issues are and the band will assist you in this. With that said you know that this is a tool and you have to work with it. It is so totally normal to be nervous, people would be lying if they said they werent. I look at it as there are sideafftects with the surgery and a hellava lot more for being obese. So good luck, be optimistic, and enjoy the start of the rest of your life.

congrats on entering band land. Good luck, and wishing you health and success.

I used to drink so much diet coke. It was ridiculous the amount but stopped 2 months prior to surgery. I thought it was going to be so hard but it really wasnt. In fact I accidently took a sip of what I thought was my cup of iced tea and it was my cousins diet coke and i thought it tasted awful. The taste was so nasty so I do not feel bad about the soda anymore. Loving my crystal light. You want to be careful about the soda with all the air , and the carbanation. Good luck to you.

Don't worry Baylee you will eventually feel better. It was a good month before I felt good and back to normal. The spot you are describing is probably where your portis. i hope you start to feel better soon.

my port is also more on the right side as well. I think it is just different with every surgeon. I hope you find your answers. Good luck.

I couldn't have said it better myself! good luck to all :tongue2:

Kdm you must be so excited!!! Good luck to you!!! Who is your surgeon? Wishing you all a good week.:tongue2:

I am sorry you are having such a problem. Wishing you health and fast healing for all the issues. Good luck

hello! It is great to see someone else start the journey of a lifetime. This is the best thing I ever did for myself so I hope you end up feeling the same. As far as the sleep test goes I never had to do that but I do believe they do it for sleep apnea. They just want to make sure you are in good enough health to have this done. Good luck

I am a full time nursing/health administration student. I am also a full time waitress and a part time personal care attendent for an 11 year old autistic boy.