Naynay31

I'm going to whine for a minute. I feel like I'm losing so slow, I've only lost a Pound this week, sigh. I get my Vitamins and my required Protein in, I've started exercise. I feel defeated, like I won't even get to my goal weight even in a year.

So I had my 1 month visit today, everything went well They said I can start on solids now, just to take it easy and not all at once. I have been struggling with getting my Protein in, so they said that is probably why I stalled and then gained 2 lbs, my body is holding on to whatever it can because I'm not giving it enough. Soo, I'm hoping that it will be easier to get protein now, it's got to be! Nutritionist said that I can't have bread, obviously, but I can have Naan or flat out hungry girl breads...so I'm looking fwd to making a little healthy pizza sometime soon! She also gave me two sample shakes of the Premier Protein, 30g in one...I'm hoping that one agrees with my picky pouch! Was also finally given the Zofran for my nausea, and then they sent me to the hospital to make sure my calf pain wasn't a blood clot...I'm home now, so it was all good

Also, had a not so good day yesterday I was just dizzy and nauseous all day, I only really wanted Soup to eat, ended up fighting with my bf over that because he can't understand everything I'm going thru...then he dropped the bomb, I knew it was bound to happen...he told me he wishes I never had this surgery, he wishes that he talked me out of it the night before and he's so frustrated with me being so miserable and never feeling well and blablabla. It really stung to hear that he apologized later, but I'm still hurt!

dont feel bad I gain 2.5lbs I'm use my wii fit as my scale but I think it went up because I had just ate and I have two packs of weave in my head lol but still

Oh my goodness girls, you ladies are having a tough time. I'm so weak towards the middle of my shift at work now. I used to be able to work 16 hours and have 4 hours of sleep and back for 8, no problem. Now I'm barely making my whole 8 hour shift without feeling totally drained. I finallly moved past 220, Yay! although it is only 1 pound , and I've been this weight for the past week. Come on to be under 200 lbs, I'm really hoping to make it by New Years.

i wish I could do something with my hair. I can't wait to get back to work.

the regular burping just mean you're swallowing air.

dont feel bad I gain 2.5lbs I'm use my wii fit as my scale but I think it went up because I had just ate and I have two packs of weave in my head lol but still

Omg...can someone please tell me how I gained 1.2 lbs??? I was stalled last week...I stopped checking the scale for like 5 days and decided I'd check this morning. To my surprise I gained 1.2! I'm so sad and so discouraged right now I want to cry

Yes no more Blood pressure meds or diabetes meds I was on two of each they dropped right after surgery and I'm 4 weeks post op and still doing good

Yes no more Blood pressure meds or diabetes meds I was on two of each they dropped right after surgery and I'm 4 weeks post op and still doing good

omg my buddy I'm sorry your not feeling good it will get better we all have good and bad days more bad then good but I took pain meds before I ate a half a pill ate and waited 30mins then drink hot green tea I was a lil high on meds just a lil did that for about a week and now I'm good I don't take the pain meds anymore my husband is an truck driver/LPN Lol and he said when I would try to eat my mind was so focused on not overeating or how much of it can I eat and I would tighten up my stomach like I was stressing thinking to hard so with doing half a Percocet 5mins before I ate waited my 30mins and had something hot relaxed my body so I can't tighten up not sure if my story will help you but I nope your doing better sweetie

I am three years out. A few months ago, I figured out I was drinking too much.. and had been doing so for almost a year. It started about 2 years out... It was just wine but it got to be just about every night and several glasses. When I stopped I had physical withdrawal symptoms. That was scary to me. Now I am still sober, but I know that there is an issue with my mind wanting to go back to food addiction, drink or do something. I even decided I have collected too many clothes from thrift stores and such and I am working to organize and declutter. I am not actively engaged in any addiction (that I know of). I have therapy once a week, but I have to admit I get nervous and feel edgy. It is not easy. On the other hand, with drinking and being 2 years post op, I gradually regained 15 pounds from my lowest point. I am happy since i stopped drinking, I not only got rid of those calories and I pay better attention to my food. I have lost 3 pounds of my regain.

Urinary incontinence is a comorbidity of obesity. I'd be surprised if he didn't ask.

I had surgery RNY on oct 28 I have felt great since I came home a little stomach soreness but no dumping or cramping. I saw my surgeon and dietitian yesterday they started me on phase 3 of my diet this morning I ate 1 scrambled egg and 2 scoops of grits I mixed them together and I was little worried about dumping but the crazy thing was I was completely full after eating only half of it stomach was fine no issues

lol oh yea hurts but you be so thirsty u wanna guzzle it down lol

On my first day week 2. I feel good. Went out today. After 4 hours of shopping I felt like I should go home and not overdo it. Came home grabbed another drink and without thinking I darted to drink it like old me. Fortunately I stopped after two big gulps. How stupid was that, I forgot I had bypass one week ago. Not my brightest moment!

Oh my gosh girl! ! I wish we were near you to come and hug you! ! You are not a failure at all!! You were thinking of your child when you did this to be healthier! The chances of this happening are so small, I am just so so sorry it happened to you! !! You are in my thoughts and prayers!

I'm so sorry you are having this complication and that you feel this way. Buyers remorse is totallty normal and expected when you have gone through what you are now. No one ever knows if we will have complications or not, or how detrimental the complications may be. I'm hoping that in the next coming months, especially after the clot goes and you're able to handle food that you change your mind about your surgery. You aren't selfish to think about, love and care for yourself. If you don't take care of you, you wont be able to take care of anyone else, especially your son. Just know that at the end of all of this he will never blame you for fighting for a healthier you, for fighting to make sure you were there for him through everything and that the weight that hinders you now, wont in the future. I will pray long and hard for you tonight that God will give you the relief you so despirately need. With Love.

#1 you are NOT a failure to life!! Period. You had this surgery and took upon the risks to make a better life for yourself and your child. You did it to be healthy for your child and be present hopefully longer and to get to see all of his milestones. I am so sorry that this has happen and that you are frustrated and upset, let alone in pain. Know that we are here for you to vent or cry or scream! You will get beyond this challenge and you will be stronger mind body and soul for it. I send you my prayers and well wishes. ✨❤️✨

Oh no @@Bronxmerci! Do they know what is going on? Sending healing thoughts and hugs!

@@Luna222 That is exactly how I feel today. It was my first day alone since surgery (my surgery was 10/29) and just feel so alone today. I can cry at the drop of a hat. It sounds so stupid, but I want more attention. Even typing it it sounds stupid. It's not like I want everyone to shower me with attention, but maybe I want my family and friends to check on me more often? I don't know. I think the pain meds have me feeling more emotional along with having major surgery. Maybe I just need to go to sleep. Lol...

Question I don't feel full especially when drinking Water so any help is it normal? When I eat I feel s lil something but no cramping in the even and I drink slow but not sipping and I'm not sure if that ok or is something wrong

yea I eat puréed food on the 3rd day of surgery too

yea it's not just you some smells be killing me to lol and yes coughing hurts a lot and sneezing do to