Ladies.
60 year old married man here.
Some observations:
The majority of women in America are overweight. American men date and marry.
You are ahead of the curve, you are losing weight in a very tanagable way.
Ok I know it is fiction, but, I am reminded of an episode of Always Sunny in Philadelphia.. Mac is dating a Pre- op trans- sexual. His friends say " dude she has a penis"
Mac says " yes, but she is getting rid of it eventually"
You are getting rid of the lbs. We men are not that sensitive.
Remember the scene in Eat, Pray , love. Where she tells the Sweedish girl that just gained15pounds.
" if you are in bed With a guy he is thinking 1 thing. " OMG! I won the lottery"
I have seen 3 friends ( that I thought would never date-- all in their 60's-- 70s) just meet someone. 2 online, 1 at a neighborhood party. They are soooooo Happy, and I an soooooo happy for them.
You are young and taking control of your lives. You are in the best possible place!
Go for it.