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Everything posted by bilka
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8 MOS/5 LBS AWAY
Nice change!!! :clap2:
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How To Tell Him
Tiffykins, you are right. When I told mine he was horrified. Completely against it. He too likes round girls but... It was the right choice. And he still is like before (he needed a couple of weeks to adjust to the idea of me losing weight), ou relationship hasn't changed a bit: still fighting, arguing, having sex, having fun. Last Sunday he even said: "You really made the right choice". I think he enjoys the fact that I am not obsessed with food anymore and that I don't hate myself anymore. If YOU are convinced that it's the right choice at some point he will understand. Explain your reasons. Tell him how you've been fighting this problem all your life and that he can ask you any question he likes. That you need his support. Maybe if he feels somehow involved in your decision (and not having the decision just "dropped" on his head) he will be more understanding...
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Nearly 2 years post op!
Thank you for sharing. It amazing to hear that you don't regret doing it, even 2 years later. And that you are doing fine, keeping your weight etc etc. It is great, especially for us who just started or are going to start their journey soon. And yes! We all do love the before and after pics! Thanks again!!!
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Drinking
I sometimes take a couple of sips of water during my meals, it depends on the food (baby food doesn't need water, fish does in order not to get stuck in my throat!). My sips are very little otherwise I really have no more space for food!
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So thankful
Nieces and nephews can be annoying sometimes, but Thank God for them! Yours really gave you a great kick! Congratulations on the huge weightloss!
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Surgerverssary With Pics!!
WOW! You do look amazing! Thank you for sharing how it feels like 1 year post op
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The best NSV thus far ! ! !
That's fantastic, congratulations Tiffykins!!!
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Did I stretch my stomach?
I don't think the size of your stomach is what matters, if you aren't hungry, if you eat no more than 800 calories... Nothing has probably stretched! Well, it isn't the size of the stomach that makes you stall! They normally are combined factors like the amount of calories, the quanity of meals, the amount of exercise, the type of food you eat,.. And the fact that your body is adjusting to all the news it received! It probably is "just" a stall, it is annoying that it happened so early! But, as you probably read when other people met the stall, talk to your nutritionist, try to increase your exercises and do not give up! The scale will move again! 29 puonds in just over a month aren't bad at all!!!
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Husband's main concern
Good to know that they are all the same! A couple of weeks... When you get your stitches out you feel much more comfortable moving around...
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Why sugar free?
I have diabetes 1 so for me s/f stuff is compulsory, but I think that that helps you a lot with your diet. The first months you are supposed to lose a large amount of weight, so why should you get extra calories from sugar, when you can get the same things sugar free? And I read that many people, being obese, also get diabetes 2, which does go away after a great weight loss, so I guess it's just better for everyone, diabetes or not, to keep the sugar level down... Sugar causes cravings as well and you don't want that either. (btw in the morning I do have some sugar, because of my bloodsugar being very low at that time: I have a light pudding sweetened with artificial sweeteners AND sugar, but it only has 95 kcal. This hasn't killed my diet at all, I guess if you do things in moderation you are fine)
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told my parents
Great to hear good news! My family was annoying when I told me, but now they see me happy and they are happy. Hubby and mum actually told me (after surgery) that I've made the right choice. (I would have liked the support before, but now it's better than never).
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Unrealistic Expectations
People are just funny sometimes... Or maybe they just watch too much TV. You should have laughed and told him that... you did not swallow a magic bean! That's why I didn't tell anyone (except for like 5 people), they all think I am on a diet now, which I am anyway, so whatever...
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Uno, dos, nope . . . it's unolandia (onderland!)
Congratulations for everything! You look amazing (and really happy)!
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Bad hair cut
Oh good, it is good to have a short haircut that will grow nicely! And thank you Wildorchids for the suggestions, I do not have grey hair yet, but I'll look for brown with gold in it, I promise!
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Guess what?!
Congratulations! Margaret, you'll get one soon too!
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Bad hair cut
You did great going back and getting your money back! At least hair grows back! Have you found another hairdresser that can help you out? Look what I found online (naybe you've done your research too, but it seemed like a good idea: http://www.expatwoman.com/forum/messages.aspx?TopicID=104677 ) Or here you get a free blow dry coupon with a hair cut and restyle: http://www.qype.co.uk/place/1657583-The-Beauty-Spot-Salons-Abu-Dhabi You are not alone anyway! My hairdresser decided to try a new dyeing technique on me. The result: I've got pink hair on half of my head. I didn't really notice at the beginning, I thought it was more like mahogany, until everyone I met was like: "Wow, you've got pink hair now!". I'm going to a wedding in April, so I guess I am going to buy a cheap colour at the supermarket and dye my hair brown again...
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Four weeks Post-OP
First of all congratulations on your 100 lbs weight loss! Did you really expect her to say something nice??? Now she's losing the only reason she had to criticise you, she'll have to find something else to do... I am sure she's annoyed now that she's not going to be the only skinny lady in the office! And that's a great reward for you! I know I am mean, but I'd be just happy :devil_smile:... The fact that she isn't saying anything just shows her annoyance!
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help!!! would like your input...
10 days aren't going to change anything. If you feel safer with your sister around just wait for her. It's great to have someone you love with you. I would have waited 10 days if my hubby/mother/sister had told me to (shame they didn't and I had to travel without them, but that's another story! )!
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Getting Sleeved Young
Dear Amber, my BMI was "only" over 34 when I got sleeved, but I wish I had it done 10 years ago (I am 30 now). I would have saved myself a lot of health troubles. And I would have been happier. It does change your life, but before the sleeve I lived for food, right now I have so many other interestests! Like my skinny friends I eat and drink just a little bit and have more time for other stuff. I really wish I had it done before...
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Food dreams
I used to dream about food every time I was on a diet (half of my life, then!)... I always woke up feeling guilty for all I "ate". Right now I am not having those dreams anymore, just lots of nightmares with shootings, blood, the end of the world and other ridiculous stuff...
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Most Wonderous NSV
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my journey from 612 to 200
Hello and welcome! Keep us updated! You've already done a great job and you're just 3 weeks out! Congratulations!
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Shaving stomach area before surgery?
The night before surgery the nurse came in wanting to shave my belly... I was like "???", she looked at my belly and decided I didn't need it. Of course it is different for a man, but, as the others said, they will shave your belly if they need to, so do not worry about it yourself!
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How do you feel 4 weeks out?
Hello! I am about 1 month out. I feel great, I am still not comfortable with semi-solid food (mashed fish for example), but it's getting better day by day. I also still have problems drinking enough water (I hate non sparkling water), but again it's getting better, I am having jello, broth, vitamins with water,..
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6 Months Post Op - Pictures & Comments
Congratulations :martini_shaken:!!! You really look good! Pink suits you! You've done a great job!!!