wannalise

Thank you so much. I had hoped that weight loss would mean that I would need less medication too, but I am double the medication I was at my full dosage. I am trying to be patient, and may need to visit with a new neurologist as we just aren't finding what I need with my current doctor. I genuinely believe that there is purpose in all we experience, but want desperately to feel like myself and have the energy it takes to be the type of mom I have always hoped I'd be.

Well I am three years post op and so grateful for this journey. Having lost the weight increased my fertility dramatically, and allowed me to conceive and give birth to a healthy beautiful boy. However, the strangest side effect has come with my epilepsy. Medications that once managed my seizure symptoms are no more. I have been working with a neurologist for 2.5 years trying to find the magic combo. Taking way more than I had to at 320 lbs (I am at 160 now) the best guess that my medical professionals have. I once had a fatty inefficient liver. I no longer do. My liver is so effective that it chews up more medicine than the FDA's maximum dosages. I am so grateful for the changes I have made. I have so much joy in this body. But my epilepsy before was not even a part of my life. I went for a decade with no seizures. I had friends who had no idea this had even been a part of my life. Now I am unable to get up in the night with my small fry and my husband has graciously taken that role. I am often dizzy, or disoriented from the high doses of medicaion. Yet I still often feel on the verge of a seizure. Its hard to know what to wish for.

I was stable from about 7 months, there are still variances two years out though. Everyone has had that one day (I've had it lots of times) where you say, "Oh no I've ruined it!" I had months where I could only eat part of a Wendy's chili and one day when I finished the whole thing I almost cried. But two days ago I sat down with a bowl of strawberries and was full at 3. Another thing for me is that eggs are slider foods. Bread sometimes can be too, depending on the type. You are doing great!

The great thing is that we all have the opportunity to do homework, and then do what is right for us. I have had friends that had the surgery in the states and outside, we all feel great about our choices, but ulitimately had to do homework and find what we were most comfortable with. I went because I was pleased with my surgeons reputation, and stats. I also had to consider the financial aspect, I was scheduled to have surgery with a great surgeon here, but was unable to spend that money. That brought risk with it, I understood those risks and FOR ME it was worth it, but that is something that only you can decide for you. These forums can be informative, but remember we are just a bunch of folks chatting. Ultimately it is your responsibility to do the homework and find the best alternatives for you. Anna

I can tell based on what I am eating and how hydrated I am I may have more gas or irregularity. Even post op the quality of what you put in your body still matters. But I don't think I am too stinky a gal. But I may even be more willing to be a stinky gas bomb, then feel how I felt at 310 pounds! Anna

I worked with two different surgeons offices. I think the standard recommendations preop are: Minimum of 60g Protein and neither surgeons wanted me to worry about carbs. Post op: 60-80g protein Less then 30g carbs Hang in there preop is no fun, but totally worth it!!! Anna

You can do it!!!! It really is no fun, but I promise it is worth every bit of struggle. Anna

Awesome!!!! I will never forget the way I felt that day. You will never be the same. Be patient with yourself. Try not to compare yourself to others. You are going to rock this!!!! I will be thinking about you tomorrow. Best of luck to you!!!! Anna

You had 80-85% of a vital organ removed, stay patient with your body it is incredibly dramatic and swelling is our bodies way of protecting itself. Good luck to you and I hope you feel well soon. Anna

Okay I shall try to post pictures!

That is so great! Congratulations, keep posting!!! Anna

This is a rough journey, a lot of changes have to be made both physically and mentally. Try to be nice to yourself. You deserve it. Anna

I struggled with nausea for quite a while, it was very frustrating and depressing truthfully. I found out that my main issue was dehydration, for some reason the body develops nausea when you are dehydrated which seems backwards. I hope your doctor is able to find the solution for you! Anna

Good luck to you. Be sure to ask lots of questions if you have them. And follow those instructions! Be patient with yourself after surgery, you will have a hard time initially being able to get all of your liquids and Proteins in, but it you will get there. Keep us posted and know that you have cheerleaders her for you! Anna