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"no Longer Her Safe/fat Friend" Lol! 5 Months Pics

By LaBelle509

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IT HAS BEEN FIVE MONTHS SINCE MY LIFE CHANGED!!

 

I walked in this morning wearing a new outfit. Complete chaos lol!!!! My "friend" started acting up again. Ever since my surgery, she started a crazy eating pattern and exercise day and night it seems like. She sat there and said NOTHING.

 

Once the other coworkers walked away, we started discussing the day and plans for the weekend. She found a new cool place and was thinking of going there Saturday night. I said awesome and then she said this: this is going to be fun, although I am not sure of "this" new you. You are no longer the beautiful SAFE friend. WTF?!?

I smiled and said " what you mean to say is, I am no longer the fat friend and you have seen nothing yet cupcake"

 

This is fuel for me. I am determine to be the beautiful, skinny, unsafe friend. Her and others that think like her, have no idea what's coming :rolleyes:

P.S I learned today (from my NUT) it is important to keep my calories up above 600 calories. For my body to process protein properly and boost weight loss, my caloric intake have to be at a good level. From 600 to 800 but no higher than 1000 with exercise of course.

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    Aspiring Evangelist

    SLEEVEDNBEAUTIFUL

    LAP-BAND Patients

    Keep up the GREAT work. Her insecurties can't hold you hostage. You look amazing. Keeping me ready to reach my 5months.

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    makemyownluck

    Gastric Bypass Patients

    get it, girl. Let her be mad about how good you look - beautiful women are always gonna have a hater or two throwing shade around them. You look great!!

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    LaBelle509

    Gastric Sleeve Patients

    thnx ladies!! of all the people that changed, she surprised me the most. She always told me how beautiful I was despite my size. She never once made me feel bad because of my weight. It's confusing to know me being overweight, makes her feel like I am safe to have around. Does not make sense at all!!

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    desertmom

    Gastric Sleeve Patients

    Hi,but lets face it,when we were the safe friend they were the pretty ones!

    Some of my closest friends were often the most beautiful girl in any room at any time.I often wondered why they would be such good friends with me,didnt fit in with their picture.Sadly,most of them are not around anymore and that is ok.But my 2 best friends got over themselves and are super supportive.

    You rock girl!

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    Sissy Kay

    Gastric Sleeve Patients

    Oh LaBelle, I have often stated that it's not money or sex that makes the world go round. It's plain ole' JEALOUSY. And when you do achieve your goals, be sure to thank this "friend" for her unintended motivation! Sounds like you're probably more self-conscious, self-examining, and considerate of others -- stay that way and it will make your total personal "package" the deal of a lifetime !!!

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    Divapammy71

    Gastric Sleeve Patients

    Wow, that is something. I get sleeved in 01/16/2013. I have been going through a process pre surgery of purging from my life those that are vampires. There are a few left standing. If they have issues after the surgery, then bye bye to them to. It's tight, but its right. My health first and foremost. They got problems, they can kiss my grits!! You keep on your path girl!!

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