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Bad and Good News

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I was given some devastating news Tuesday of this week that has pretty much set me on an emotional roller coaster ride. Being off work due to the weather all week hasn't helped because I've had nothing else to take my focus.


BUT the good news is I never turned to food for comfort. It didn't even cross my mind that I "deserve" this food or that because of the news or if I can make it to this point I should reward myself or plan a special meal, etc. It wasn't until last night that I even realized something was different. As an early post-op, I remember going through a mourning stage when the sleeve wouldn't allow me to use food as a comfort friend to heal emotional and physical pain. I guess I can say that I truly look at food now as a source of energy rather than a friend. This is not to say I don't have cravings and sometimes make the wrong decisions (eating chips, grazing all day long, etc.), but my relationship with food has changed completely and I couldn't have asked for more from this procedure.

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Sorry you had bad news to deal with but glad for your new mature relationship with food, a big victory!

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I'm sorry to hear about the bad news DeeDee, I hope your heart heals soon. Good job on not turning to food. This week has been really rough for me mentally. If you need to talk, you know where to find me.

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Thank you both for your kind words. And Tiff, same for you...I'm here to listen if you need to talk.

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