Single Bandster in PA

[Spiffytif21 0]

Hey all...

It's been a little over 3 months since I've made the choice to have the lapband surgery, and take the steps toward getting it done.

In the process, I've been watching a few different forums. This one in general, has made me think about how nifty it would be to meet a guy that is/has/will be getting banded as well.

As with most people, I've had my ups and downs in relationships. Just thought I would throw this thought out there and see if it's crossed anyone elses mind.

Has anyone taken this journey with their partner or met someone along the way that has also been banded and you are now dating?

Just curious!

Thanks!

Edited July 9, 2008 by Spiffytif21

[POMA 3]

Hey all...

It's been a little over 3 months since I've made the choice to have the lapband surgery, and take the steps toward getting it done.

In the process, I've been watching a few different forums. This one in general, has made me think about how nifty it would be to meet a guy that is/has/will be getting banded as well.

As with most people, I've had my ups and downs in relationships. Just thought I would throw this thought out there and see if it's crossed anyone elses mind.

Has anyone taken this journey with their partner or met someone along the way that has also been banded and you are now dating?

Just curious!

Thanks!

Hello,

I am going through this journey with my boyfriend of 4 years. It's been tuff, it's only been a month now. He has been there for me, but at the same time, it's been hard with him. I am having lots of ups and downs, emotional lows, highs.

He has been stressed at work so I have not been able to get much support from him lately and he lives 1 hour away so that doesn't help much either. It's been difficult to stay with him. I feel that a lot of my needs are not being met and I want to move on but not until I lose the weight, so it's kind of a tuff situation.

My therapist seems to think once I lose the weight I will have more options and not feel he is the only one for me, since I'm somewhat unhappy with him, but I stay anyways.

So there you have it. It's been difficult.

Yeah I have thought of meeting a man that has been banded as well, but wouldn't know where to start.

Plus I can't do that to my current boyfriend. I would have to leave him first. :cursing: