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pit·y
/ˈpidē/

noun

1. The feeling of sorrow and compassion caused by the suffering and misfortunes of others

2. A cause for regret or disappointment.

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A safe space to drop your baggage, bemoan your post op life issues (rational or not) without the worry of someone trying to "Iyanla fix my life" and hopefully leave feeling lighter

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  • I didn't even realize that I wasn't supposed to have "relations" until after I was cleared for it. Easy Tip: He can stand. Pro Tip: He can plank. ?

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    I wanted to start a (safe) place where people can just vent ❤️

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I'm confused...

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Yeah I knew I was getting plastics, and although my plan was rather quickly executed, I thought i had everything planned.

Well I didn't think about life after plastics too much. So now I'm stuck with 12 brand new non returnable bras I never wore in my former size and a b2ery patient BF who *may* want to have relations (with me) sometime in the near future...

Welcome to the party

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6 minutes ago, Superman84 said:

I'm confused...

OK...

Sounds like life to me don't stress so much

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Just now, Superman84 said:

Sounds like life to me don't stress so much

Not stressing

*whining/venting/indulging*

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Open your eyes GreenTeaLael! Those are blessings ?

Maybe you could sell the bras online. I still think we should have a buy sell or trade group ?

You might be able to sell the bras online on eBay or Poshmark. Congrats on your new surgery. How are you doing? Why doesn't the boyfriend want to have relations with you yet? Scars? Sore? Pain?

I like this thread, I'm going to be able to have a pity post of my own post op life soon. I shall return, stay tuned....

Going to borrow the confetti for after my surgery, the January thread needs to celebrate.

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I wanted to start a (safe) place where people can just vent ❤️

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I'll join in...

I thought I was buying a new, *flatter than ever before in my life, even when I was thin* tummy. But instead I have a baby Buddha tummy I need to STILL stuff into compression i.e. torture gear.

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It's my party and I'll cry if I want to, cry if I want to, cry if I want to...you would cry too if it happened to you!

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3 hours ago, GradyCat said:

How are you doing? Why doesn't the boyfriend want to have relations with you yet? Scars? Sore? Pain?

Doing great!

Doctors orders

4 minutes ago, JRT Mom said:

It's my party and I'll cry if I want to, cry if I want to, cry if I want to...you would cry too if it happened to you!

I instantly started singing this to the Melody in my head as I read along. Lmaooooo...

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