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Worried about my aunt.

Hiraeth

By Hiraeth, in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums

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Hiraeth    515

Hiraeth
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So, I have an aunt that wants to get WLS. She was not interested in getting it until I had it done; I guess I sparked some bravery into her. :)

She is only about 4'10'' and weighs over 300 pounds. She mentioned to us that she has congestive heart failure. This really worries me. Does having congestive heart failure make it impossible for her to have the surgery? I feel like, if she can't have it, then what is she going to do to lose the weight and correct her heart? Has anyone here had the surgery and made their heart healthier? I don't know how severe her condition is.

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laceemouse    631

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Only a doctor can say if her heart is strong enough for surgery, but I do agree that losing the weight would help. Just have her see her doctor and discuss the risks and benefits of WLS. Hope this helps.

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@@Hiraeth WLS is often recommended for people with congestive heart failure. The important thing will be for the Bariatrician and Cardiologist to work together at ensuring her heart disease is managed and it is safe for her to have surgery. There are certainly more risks involved - but honestly - she's at risk every day at that weight. She will obviously need cardiac clearance.

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Hiraeth    515

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Thanks so much for the responses. I never even knew she had that condition until last year. She only mentioned it slightly, which makes me wonder (and hope) that it's only mild or moderate. I agree that she will have a better chance at life if she loses weight. Her legs and feet are CONSTANTLY swollen. It's hard to look at because she is only 44 years old. She's pretty excited for the support group next month on September 17th. So I really hope this works for her. She has a 20-year-old daughter that just started nursing, and I know that she would be devastated to lose her mom anytime soon.

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Hiraeth    515

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@@Hiraeth She's younger than me! I was picturing her older - that's scary she already has CHF. Hope all goes well!

Yes, it is scary. She smokes and eats a lot of fried foods. She's also not very active. I hope she doesn't get discouraged by anything during her process. I'm glad that her husband is being supportive.

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