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This month will be 2 years I have been banded. I am in a constant struggle with my thyroid. For the past year I have just STOPPED LOSING. I am not gaining but I can't lose a pound. My doctor is frustrated... my endocrinologist has been trying everything. I am exercising. Only taking in about 1000 calories at the most. That's all I can eat and I burn on average 2100-2200 calories a day. I am frustrated...feel like a failure and am now depressed. I am at a loss for what my choices are.

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In the two years how much have you lost? Maybe you have hit your number and that's why you stopped.

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54 pounds. :( I still have 54 more. I have not hit a happy number yet.

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Why do YOU feel like a failure, when it's your thyroid that's causing the problem ? If you're doing everything right, and your Dr, s are helping too, why does that make you a failure ? I understand that you're frustrated , but blaming yourself for something you have no control over seems pointless ! Instead, congratulate yourself on what you HAVE lost, not what you HAVEN'T lost. Your hard work and accomplishments are far greater than a number on the scale, so congratulations ! And be proud of yourself !!!

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Thanks @pinkdahlia. I just was so motivated and doing the right thing and now with the same motivation and habits there is no result. It is just frustrating. It messes with your mind a bit.

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I understand but I think you have did a wonderful job your just hard on yourself. If another person told you they lost 54 pounds that would be really good it's just harder when it's yourself. Keep up the good work you are doing your best.????

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My insurance doesn't cover them but my Flexible Spending does with a prescription.

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Do you have hypothyroidism or hyperthyroidism? What medication are you on? What symptoms are you experiencing from your thyroid? I have researched the thyroid extensively because I am hypothyroid. I am sure I can help you. I am not a doctor, but took matters into my own hands and found a doctor that would work with me.

Kelly

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