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Scared To Death Help!

My surgery is Tuesday. I am scared to death. I have been psyched until today. Now for some reason I'm bordering on panic. Any words of wisdom from those who have gone before?

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  • barebones
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    You are all in my thoughts and prayers ! 12 days ago I was in your shoes !! I take medication for anxiety/panic and it works great, but the week before my surgery I was a mess !!! You will be fine,

  • Krystyneh
    Krystyneh

    I'm officially on Zoloft AND they renewed my Ativan prescription thankfully

  • I was scared too and also suffer from panic attacks. You have gone this far! You can do it! This 2 HOUR surgery is going to add YEARS to your life!!! You will be so relieved once you wake up a new pe

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I'm officially on Zoloft AND they renewed my Ativan prescription :) thankfully

As soon as I arrived for the surgery the first thing they gave me was some calming drugs. It was great. I did all the paperwork for the hospital a week before.

As soon as I arrived for the surgery the first thing they gave me was some calming drugs. It was great. I did all the paperwork for the hospital a week before.

They are going to do that for me and I have to take one of my ativans the night before but I have PTSD so I'm always anxious lol

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I.was on Zoloft for 9 1/2 years but about a year ago it just stopped working for me. I know losing weight will.make the anxiety and depression a little easier to manage

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I.was on Zoloft for 9 1/2 years but about a year ago it just stopped working for me. I know losing weight will.make the anxiety and depression a little easier to manage

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Oh I hope it doesn't stop working for me :( I already feel a difference and I took it 2 hours ago

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I had a LOT going on then. I was living in a bad place due to finances and then because of food poisoning my twins had to be delivered via emergency c section 2 months early. The were sent to children's hospital over an hour away & all I got to see of them before they were taken was a belly & a foot. I didn't get to see them for 3 days. Then @ 3 weeks old the twins developed NEC, which is their intestines were dieing from infection. My son almost died and I couldn't hold him because it might have caused his intestines to rupture. They were in NICU for 2 months. It is by far the hardest thing I've gone through. The bypass should be easy compared to that. Anyway, the Zoloft just couldn't quite keep up with my stress level and then I got slammed with the worst case of post partum depression I've had (i have 5 kids). All this was at same time. I think anyone would crack under that.

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I had a LOT going on then. I was living in a bad place due to finances and then because of food poisoning my twins had to be delivered via emergency c section 2 months early. The were sent to children's hospital over an hour away & all I got to see of them before they were taken was a belly & a foot. I didn't get to see them for 3 days. Then @ 3 weeks old the twins developed NEC' date=' which is their intestines were dieing from infection. My son almost died and I couldn't hold him because it might have caused his intestines to rupture. They were in NICU for 2 months. It is by far the hardest thing I've gone through. The bypass should be easy compared to that. Anyway, the Zoloft just couldn't quite keep up with my stress level and then I got slammed with the worst case of post partum depression I've had (i have 5 kids). All this was at same time. I think anyone would crack under that.

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Yes I think anyone would crack under that also lol I just don't want to feel like a walking zombie that's the thing then on top of that I'm afraid of if I do have a panic attack, if it's okay to take an Ativan while on Zoloft lol but my doctor wouldn't prescribe the 2 to me if it was unsafe right

You are correct. You can take something like Ativan or Xanax with another anti anxiety.

You are correct. You can take something like Ativan or Xanax with another anti anxiety.

Awesome!!! Thank u sooo much now I'm more relaxed lol I've calmed myself down but for future I know I'll be okay taking my Ativan :)

I'm on Lexapro for anxiety, and it has been a godsend !!!

Hi Krysty' date='

I have tried a lot of things through the years and the only thing that finally helped was Zoloft, I have taken it now for over 4 years and it has changed my life[/quote']

I'll have to agree with you on this! I've tried about 13 different medications for anxiety and finally settled on zoloft. Been on it 2 years and like you, my life has changed!!

Definitely keeping you in my prayers! I think I'm the only one who wasn't nervous for surgery, even the morning of surgey I kept trying to physc myself out, but I was completly calm. Has anyone noticed after surgey that the anxiety has decreased? I used to have pretty bad anxiety but I've noticed I don't have panic/anxiety attacks anymore.

I'll have to agree with you on this! I've tried about 13 different medications for anxiety and finally settled on zoloft. Been on it 2 years and like you, my life has changed!!

Did any of you have any burning in your head after just taking one pill? I have some burning in my head and my whole body felt cold. The burning comes and goes but it has me worried and I didn't take one today, I took an Ativan instead because my anxiety is high today because my husband is coming home for our 2 year wedding anniversary today :)

I am another that suffers from panic disorder. I've been ecstatic about the surgery, and thought I was doing great with the pre-surgery anxiety. Then I started having panic attacks in my sleep. I see my psychiatrist tomorrow for a med tweak.

I had a LOT going on then. I was living in a bad place due to finances and then because of food poisoning my twins had to be delivered via emergency c section 2 months early. The were sent to children's hospital over an hour away & all I got to see of them before they were taken was a belly & a foot. I didn't get to see them for 3 days. Then @ 3 weeks old the twins developed NEC' date=' which is their intestines were dieing from infection. My son almost died and I couldn't hold him because it might have caused his intestines to rupture. They were in NICU for 2 months. It is by far the hardest thing I've gone through. The bypass should be easy compared to that. Anyway, the Zoloft just couldn't quite keep up with my stress level and then I got slammed with the worst case of post partum depression I've had (i have 5 kids). All this was at same time. I think anyone would crack under that.

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Wow I just can't even imagine having to go though that! Bravo to you for making it through! I know how hard post partum depression was for me so I can only imagine what you struggled with. Yes it would have made anyone crack!

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