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So im only 8 days post op but have lots an amazing 17 pounds that have really shown. I started at 220 and currently 203. Sooooo last night my hubby couldn't resist and neither could I. We got it on and all I can say is WOW! I had energy, felt amazing, and climaxed pretty fast!!!!! Looool.. then I thought, wasn't I suppose to wait 3 weeks before sex? Oh ow.. now I'm thinking did I do something wrong? Am I going to start having pain or something? Any tips or experience in this regard would be much appreciated bc there's noway I'm gonna tell my doctor about this! Haha

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  • aroundhky
    aroundhky

    Well how you dooooooin'......?

  • aroundhky
    aroundhky

    You go!! Did your Dr tell you to wait 3 weeks? Mine said nothing too crazy at first and said to go for it if I felt ok. As long as you take it a little easy and let him do most of the work, you sho

  • maharet111
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    I agree with the smaller comment. I don't think that it is smaller versus I have been building muscles in my core etc. But sex is better than ever and you better damn well believe I count it as Car

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So im only 8 days post op but have lots an amazing 17 pounds that have really shown. I started at 220 and currently 203. Sooooo last night my hubby couldn't resist and neither could I. We got it on and all I can say is WOW! I had energy, felt amazing, and climaxed pretty fast!!!!! Looool.. then I thought, wasn't I suppose to wait 3 weeks before sex? Oh ow.. now I'm thinking did I do something wrong? Am I going to start having pain or something? Any tips or experience in this regard would be much appreciated bc there's noway I'm gonna tell my doctor about this! Haha

You go!! Did your Dr tell you to wait 3 weeks? Mine said nothing too crazy at first and said to go for it if I felt ok. As long as you take it a little easy and let him do most of the work, you should be fine. ;)

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Yup 3 weeks is what I was told... but I am feeling great and ur right, hI'm doing most of the work probably helped too, ok ok so its good to know I didn't do something crazy, haha thanks :-)

So im only 8 days post op but have lots an amazing 17 pounds that have really shown. I started at 220 and currently 203. Sooooo last night my hubby couldn't resist and neither could I. We got it on and all I can say is WOW! I had energy, felt amazing, and climaxed pretty fast!!!!! Looool.. then I thought, wasn't I suppose to wait 3 weeks before sex? Oh ow.. now I'm thinking did I do something wrong? Am I going to start having pain or something? Any tips or experience in this regard would be much appreciated bc there's noway I'm gonna tell my doctor about this! Haha

I was about eight days, just like you. Felt great, I think I pulled a stitch, but big deal. It was worth it. I'd asked the nurse, NOT the doctor.....she said, "When you will enjoy it as much as he does" LOL Enjoy, it only gets better!

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Only gets better? My goodness... ♡ thanks for insight

You go girl! I was told I could have sex whenever I felt up to it, I think it was about ten days for me and it was awesome! It really does only get better!

I had sex after 4 days...nothing too crazy in the beginning though...I'm almost at the 3 week mark and we have had sex quite a few times after and I'm still alive. You will be fine.

Just save the crazy sex swing stuff until your internal stitches heal..then it is ON!!!!

You go!! Did your Dr tell you to wait 3 weeks? Mine said nothing too crazy at first and said to go for it if I felt ok. As long as you take it a little easy and let him do most of the work, you should be fine. ;)

OH, hold the phone-- I thought the man was ALWAYS supposed to do most of the work?!?

;)

Just kidding!

OP- awesome for you! Can't wait to have that increased energy!

Do any of you notice a change in your vagina? Mine feels like it has shrunk... A lot!!! Is it just me?

If you are feeling fine, I wouldn't worry about it! And I agree, it only gets better! And better! And BETTER!!!

If you are feeling fine' date=' I wouldn't worry about it! And I agree, it only gets better! And better! And BETTER!!![/quote']

I'm worried it would get worse...we already have a great sex life...what about when there's no cushion lol

Do any of you notice a change in your vagina? Mine feels like it has shrunk... A lot!!! Is it just me?

yes.. smaller!

I had it 8 days post op too. I was suppose to wait two weeks. I've done it pretty much everyday since. If it hurts stop, but I've been fine!!

Thank god I got the depro shot RIGHT after surgery!!

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