I once recall saying how could someone go though all this and then mess up, I do life falls apart cheating husband pregnant girlfriend and all I can think about is my old freind food. She is what comforts me have not lost a pound in two weeks and I'm doing it to my self. I cant stand me today I don't know what to do with my life. I'm terribly sad. I've never felt so hopeless.

Rebecca

Really glad you are doing well. That's a good loss, and it ain't easy is it! I am in heavy shedding mode at the moment so I feel your pain. After a while though you do slip into the groove and it gets easier, and when you see the results and you have to buy smaller clothes it's a great pick you up. xxx

Thank you ladies sooooooo much' date=' for your insights and wisdom. I will I've been doing much better eating much healthier, I'm still down 39 pounds since February 27. I will be amazing, keep you all posted thank you.[/quote']

You already are amazing just as you already are a winner. Let him have her. You can and will do much better and you deserve nothing less.

*HUGS* ... want us to track him down for you? Go treat yourself to something self-deserving like new clothes, pedicure, movie ... Sorry you are going through this! Try to keep your chin above water. It's not you that made him cheat. You deserve more, go and get it!