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I am going to tell you a big secret to feeling good and having confidence all the way through this WLS journey. We all have moments where our clothes don't fit right. Even when they are getting too big and loose, it can make us feel frumpy and awkward. Sooo...the secret to always feeling sexy...?

Panties! Buying new panties are just as important as having clothes that fit. Go through your drawers and throw out the granny panties, the Hanes her way with holes in them...and get yourself a little something sexy or functional...your choice. Just make sure you feel confident in them and they fit. Those who are girdling it up....that's cool. Just make sure they aren't stained up or falling apart.

I can wear baggy sweats and still feel like a Goddess with a little lace or ruffles! :) That is just a little tip from how I roll.

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I'm still pre-op but I do this now!! LOL I must say a new pair of lacey undies do make me feel sexier!!!

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You're right!

It is always nice when your pants are falling down to at least see your panties and they are cute :)

Yeah, no one wants to see a raggedy a$$ whale tail! ;)

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I'm still pre-op but I do this now!! LOL I must say a new pair of lacey undies do make me feel sexier!!!

I have always done it, too! I always have matching bras and panties! It just has always made me feel better! :)

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And if any of you ladies would like confirmation just how sexy you look in your sexy panties, you are welcome to PM me photos, I'll be happy to tell you how great you look.

Heck, just to prove how nice of a guy I am, I'd be happy to accompany any of y'all on a Victoria's Secret field trip. ;)

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I am going to tell you a big secret to feeling good and having confidence all the way through this WLS journey. We all have moments where our clothes don't fit right. Even when they are getting too big and loose, it can make us feel frumpy and awkward. Sooo...the secret to always feeling sexy...?

Panties! Buying new panties are just as important as having clothes that fit. Go through your drawers and throw out the granny panties, the Hanes her way with holes in them...and get yourself a little something sexy or functional...your choice. Just make sure you feel confident in them and they fit. Those who are girdling it up....that's cool. Just make sure they aren't stained up or falling apart.

I can wear baggy sweats and still feel like a Goddess with a little lace or ruffles! :) That is just a little tip from how I roll.

I tried that, but it felt like the the thong string was cutting me in two!

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You guys are funny!! :D

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I'm kind of enjoying the "no panties" look! I just had a TT so I'm not back in to panties yet and it's definately different and something I would never have done before because I wore panties to help hold in the bulges!!! Loving my VSG and cosmetic surgeries!!!

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I tried that' date=' but it felt like the the thong string was cutting me in two![/quote']

That means it didn't fit! ;) get a bigger size! ;)

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And if any of you ladies would like confirmation just how sexy you look in your sexy panties' date=' you are welcome to PM me photos, I'll be happy to tell you how great you look.

Heck, just to prove how nice of a guy I am, I'd be happy to accompany any of y'all on a Victoria's Secret field trip. ;)[/quote']

That is so sweet of you! Somehow, I bet someone takes you up on that offer! ;) ha ha.

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That means it didn't fit! ;) get a bigger size! ;)

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y'all are all hilarious! the thong thing reminds me of a Facebook post I made a few years ago. I was going out to have some fun with my photography hobby and I posted "looking for some unique and fun thongs to photograph, any suggestions?" it was suppose to be "things", not thongs. but I definitely got suggestions. haha

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You're right!

It is always nice when your pants are falling down too at least see your panties, and they are cute :)

Would you stop please? I am only 2 days post-op and you made me laugh. In my little world right now, laughing, coughing and especially sneezing are forbidden! don't make me banish you from my little queendom! :o

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